Tambayan ng mga Chicx at Tsonx => General Discussion => Love & Relationship => Topic started by: fayt on April 17, 2013, 01:08:13 PM
Title: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: fayt on April 17, 2013, 01:08:13 PM
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There are a plethora of mistakes that a guy who is trying to get a girlfriend can make. Just like with anything, the more mistakes that you make, the harder it is going to be to get what it is that you want. I have seen guys complain about not being able to get a girlfriend and been able to point out right away some simple mistakes that they can correct that have made immediate changes in the results that they were getting. You can do the same thing, as long as you are aware of the mistakes that you are probably making right now.
Here are 3 of them:
1. It's a big mistake to keep using the same approach if it isn't working out for you.
Men do this all of the time. They'll get comfortable in the way that they approach women and even though it isn't working out well at all - they keep on doing the same thing again and again. You have to be able to look at what isn't working and make changes to the way that you approach women if you want to start getting better results. Otherwise, you are just going to get the same outcome and wonder why that keeps happening to you.
2. It's also a big mistake to lower your standards as far as what kind of woman you want to attract.
This happens a lot. A guy starts out with some pretty lofty standards for the women he wants to date and the moment that he finds it hard to get a girlfriend, he lowers them. Well, all that does is guarantee that you are going to attract the wrong types of women and if you are attracting the wrong types, you really can't expect to have a enjoyable dating life, can you?
3. A third mistake that men make is that they think that all women are the same.
I don't know why guys fall for this idea that all women are wired the same exact way, but they do. So, they don't realize that you need to be able to adjust to the situation and the woman that you approach. You can't assume that all women are going to be attracted to the same exact things, it just doesn't work like that. If you want to have a good chance at getting a girlfriend - you need to be flexible enough to adjust your strategy depending on the woman that you approach.
Title: Re: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: fayt on April 17, 2013, 01:22:24 PM
let me add something else. Don't be too nervous when dating someone..just relax! We can sense it when a guy is nervous and not relax...
tama ka po ms. bella.... sino ba naman hindi ninerbyosin kung mga katulad ang kadate :P
Title: Re: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: arthas™ on April 17, 2013, 01:34:18 PM
lakas makapagpatama nito. agree. i did those mistakes before that's why laging failed ang results.
Title: Re: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: arthas™ on April 17, 2013, 01:42:20 PM
wala talaga sa itsura, kumpara sa diskarte. the only problem is i don't know how to approach the girl na if i failed. parang pinanghinaan na ko ng loob at atras na agad.
Title: Re: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 17, 2013, 10:20:11 PM
also add that overconfidence and arrogance it's true that you need guts to approach women
but if the gave you an inch men always go for a mile right away,
Title: Re: How to Get a Girlfriend - 3 Mistakes You Might Be Making Right Now
Post by: ANONYMOUS05141981 on April 18, 2013, 12:15:51 PM
For me, Siguro act natural. Yung iba kasi sobra magpa-impress. Ang pangliligaw ay ibat iba ang sitwasyon. Hindi ka dapat magkompara.