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Title: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: lilrj23 on April 11, 2013, 12:47:21 PM
for the past few months, i have known a lot of new friends. and two of them are so pretty and i really like them.

the first one is so cute and friendly. She is soo nice and really a lovely girl. We meet in the cyber world (FB) but we did meet in person. The first time I meet her was actually last FEB 14. We actually have a dinner date. And i have a very great time with her. She makes me laugh and also I made her laugh. But she is clearly not over her ex pa. almost 1/2 of the time we spent together was talking about her ex.

the other girls was slightly different. She is also nice and really hot. (if you know what i mean) She in fact a party girl (unlike the first) and we actually meet in the bar (we also meet at first sa FB) with her friends. The reason i like this girl is she is soo bubbly and outgoing, and we share an interest, we loved to dance. Unlike the first one, she is over with her ex but now she only want to have a good time. and btw, did i say that she is smoking hot.


i am confused right now whether which girl i will pursue in courting.  ??? can you help me guys.? girls feel free to leave comments..
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: Troll Montero on April 11, 2013, 05:29:07 PM
well sir puede namang dalawa bakit kase mamimili ka lang sa isa...
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: monde8 on April 11, 2013, 11:08:12 PM
Take time to get to know more about both girls. Kelan mo palang naman sila nakikilala so halos mga first impressions palang ang nakikita mo sa kanila. Manage to spend time with both girls. Basta wag ka muna babanat ng I love you kahit kanino. Pwede yung tipong I like you or sabihin mo na masaya ka na kasama mo siya. Pero wag I love you kasi pag nag I love you back ang isa eh baka mapasubo ka agad.

As someone who used to rush relationships, I have learned na importante na may strong foundation muna kayo. Mas swak to sa sitwasyon mo because you're choosing between two individuals. Kung wala kang ibang option sana ay okay lang na maging mabilis dahil kapag hindi nag workout ay pwede naman mag split agad. Pero your case is different. If you make a wrong decision then later on realized na yung isa pala dapat ang pinili mo, baka maging huli na at wala ka nang balikan dahil iba na impression sayo nung girl at iisipin niya pa na second choice mo lang naman siya.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 11, 2013, 11:41:40 PM
ang masasabi ko lang eh gago yung pipili ng dalawa[user]lilrj23[/user][/font]

consider every possibility sir because it looks like your just focusing more on the looks

you can court them both if you want too just to them much better, but know where to stop

its up to you sir if where you wanna go the one who laugh with or the one who has same interest with you

you could choose the second if you're satisfied with someone wants to have a good time

or the 1st one who cant get over with her ex..

if you're up to the task you can replace the talk about ex with you as the subject,

on the other hand you could spend more time with the other and make the good time

into more serious romantic time, no matter what you choose to do

it's always up to you how to make it right don't rush it take time to know them better

and decide not on what makes you happy but who is the one you make happy(tama ba yun grammar)

no matter what we here in PT will be always here to hear you out and helps you

clear your mind so just post anything here
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: billkulas on April 11, 2013, 11:52:46 PM
Go to bed and sleep well, Tomorow morning you know what is right for you, Kung confused ka pa rin. Pumunta ka na sa ER at dun ka humiga... Just kidding. To early para mamili ka sa dalawa na nameet mo, Yung 1st girl, antayin mo na makarecover sya sa past nya bago ka pumasok. Help this girl, Patawanin isama mo magliwaliw para mgaing closer kayo at sa bonding nyong dalawa mararamdaman mo kung me pagmamahal ka ba sa kanya oh makamundong pagtingin lang ba ang gusto mo. Sa 2nd, party goers pala sya. Natural sasaya ka pagkasama sya dahil kasiyahan nga ang pupuntahan nyo. Makwela sya siguro at yung ang tipo mo. Pero alam mo na hindi sya seryoso. Try and try to cour her, malay mo kaw ang makapagpatino sa kanya at mapa ibig mo. Walang masama na sumubok kung kakayanin mo silang suyuin ng hindi nagbibilang ng arwa, linggo. Tyaga ka lang at makikita mo rin ang kasagutan ng problema mo.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: gr4ntur1smo on April 12, 2013, 12:09:36 AM
Dude as in doood nagmamadali nagmamadali may flight? Wagas ang choices mo parehong panalo...panalo as in hindi makagerover sa ex ex ex baka naman pag dumatin na kayo sa tooot eh ex nya maalala nya and ung isa out laud as kung maka go eh GOHW! Hehe just lighting things up...

Alam mo why not take time.. Relax chill to both of them kumbaga eh ride like the wind wag magmdali... Kasi the more na magmadali bka ikaw ang masaktan... Let the love flow as in get to know more para in the end you are now the king and theyll be you maiden :-X :-\
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: ANONYMOUS05141981 on April 12, 2013, 12:51:56 PM
Dapat pareho mo munang kilalanin ang parehong babae. After that kung sino ang tingin mong ka-compatible mo ay siya ang piliin mo. Marami ka naman oras di ba para mag-decide. Pwede namang magkaibigan muna di ba?
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: lilrj23 on April 12, 2013, 01:42:19 PM
wow. tnx guys. This is what i really like here. A problem of one can be solve by many..

:D mabuhay ang PT.. :)
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on April 12, 2013, 02:08:37 PM
the saying says,"Go with your heart's desire". Mahirap talagang mamili lalo na't pareho silang gusto mo but you can always weigh them according to what you want in a girl but tama ang isa nating ka-PT take time to know them first before making a move, the last thing that you don't want to happen is not choosing the right one. good luck
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: Prime™ on April 12, 2013, 08:12:58 PM
Both has flaws. I suggest don't take anyone seriously. Both are a potential disappointment pag nagkataon.

Have fun, get to meet them pero be emotionally invested, nah.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: LokoLoko on April 12, 2013, 08:24:44 PM
after thinking it over, take your pick. isa lang.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: jabar12 on April 12, 2013, 08:49:08 PM
makipagdate ka lang muna sa kanila. wag muna magrush. dun mo malalaman kung sino ang mas ayus sa kanila. marami pang pwede mangyari kaya wag mamili agad
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: gr4ntur1smo on April 12, 2013, 09:10:52 PM
wow. tnx guys. This is what i really like here. A problem of one can be solve by many..

:D mabuhay ang PT.. :)

sir hope you dont mind.. can you pm me their pix? hehehe just curious... ??? ??? ???
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 12, 2013, 10:33:48 PM
sir hope you dont mind.. can you pm me their pix? hehehe just curious... ??? ??? ???
mukang iba yan sir hahaha lol

at kay sir
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wag ka masiya na mag post dito

at tutulong ulit kami
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: fayt on April 12, 2013, 10:49:20 PM
Kung simpleng hang out lamg, makakausap or gimik pede sila pero kung seryosohan na ang usapan mukang palya pa un nakilala mo. Kilalanin mo muna mabuti. Kung meron isa sa kanila na makakapalagayan mo ng loob not just in fun but also in pain then choose that person.

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Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: lilrj23 on April 12, 2013, 11:39:37 PM
sir hope you dont mind.. can you pm me their pix? hehehe just curious... ??? ??? ???

mamaya nlng po. because I don't want you and the other to judge them sa looks lng or outer beauty. i will continue to add some details para po mas maliwanagan po ako at kayo. para naman po maka.advice ng maayos. Hope you Understand.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 12, 2013, 11:54:20 PM
mamaya nlng po. because I don't want you and the other to judge them sa looks lng or outer beauty. i will continue to add some details para po mas maliwanagan po ako at kayo. para naman po maka.advice ng maayos. Hope you Understand.
sige sir keep share more details

para maka tulong kami ng mas maayos
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: lilrj23 on April 15, 2013, 04:19:02 PM
sad news guys. pero help nyo pa rin ako. please

yun first girl na sinasabi ko ay may iba ng kadate. di ko kasi na"follow up"(wat is the right term?) ung pagdidate nmn kc medyo nabusy sa school. sa ngayon po. ung "karibal" ko po ay medyo mas bata sa kanya at mayaman, may kotse tsaka atv.. sa akin lng po ay hindi ako makadiskarte dahil medyo malayo po kami. palagi silang magkasama ngayon at medy ngkaigihan na sila o siya sa kanya. may magagawa pa po ba ako na mapansin nya ako at maconsider nya ang panliligaw ko..

(ngkadecide na po ako na siya yung liligawan ko kasi mas malapit ako sa kanya kaysa  sa pangalawa. at nalaman ko rin po na ung pangalawa ay may bf na..)

may magagawa pa po ba ako? o kahit man lang na masabi ko lng sa kanya na gusto ko sya? help po
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: grabehhhhhhhh on April 20, 2013, 01:54:53 PM
baka lust lang nararamdaman mo dun sa isa? iba ang love pag tumama talaga.. alamin mo din kung sino sa kanila ang talagang nagpapasaya sayo.
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: tobertsarcher on April 23, 2013, 10:24:56 PM
too early to tell whom do you really want..
like oo
love duhhhh....
try to know them more explore and probe that feelings baka utog lang yan at hindi love.


back off a while re think your situation...peace
Title: Re: Help Me.. Im confused..
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 24, 2013, 12:00:41 PM
sad news guys. pero help nyo pa rin ako. please

yun first girl na sinasabi ko ay may iba ng kadate. di ko kasi na"follow up"(wat is the right term?) ung pagdidate nmn kc medyo nabusy sa school. sa ngayon po. ung "karibal" ko po ay medyo mas bata sa kanya at mayaman, may kotse tsaka atv.. sa akin lng po ay hindi ako makadiskarte dahil medyo malayo po kami. palagi silang magkasama ngayon at medy ngkaigihan na sila o siya sa kanya. may magagawa pa po ba ako na mapansin nya ako at maconsider nya ang panliligaw ko..

(ngkadecide na po ako na siya yung liligawan ko kasi mas malapit ako sa kanya kaysa  sa pangalawa. at nalaman ko rin po na ung pangalawa ay may bf na..)

may magagawa pa po ba ako? o kahit man lang na masabi ko lng sa kanya na gusto ko sya? help po
well meron ka magagawa pa rin jan dahil sabi mo nga mas close kayo

di porket mayaman na yun titiklop ka na? such a typical looser reason

give it your all di pa tapos ang lahat kahit maging sila okay lang pwede mo siya sulutin kung

gusto mo ang mahalaga alam mo ang nararamdaman mo

kung mahal mo siya then give your best shot,
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