Post by: lovemarie on March 03, 2015, 07:24:10 PM
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Post by: barumbadong_mabait44 on March 03, 2015, 07:47:30 PM
Ang pag-ibig ay sadyang mahiwaga....Bawat isa sa atin maraming katanungan...bawat katanungan may kanya kanya tayong sagot...mali ba? Tama ba? Tanging puso lamang ang nakakaalam....[/i]
LOVE (marie's) Question #1[/color]
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HELLO MAM.... Maraming reason why iniiwan ng guy and girl or gf or missis nila..
1. Bungangera
2. Fallout ng love
3. Wala ng trill six life
4. Hndi marunong magasikaso sa mister
5. Kinaliwa ni missis
6. Nakakita ng lahat ginagawa
NOTE: Pero most at hindi ko nilalalahat marami sa mga kabaro ko di talaga naiiwasan tumikim ng ibang putahe..
Post by: lovemarie on March 03, 2015, 07:54:39 PM
Hmmm..."sawa" factor kaya kayo tikim ng ibang putahe?
Post by: barumbadong_mabait44 on March 03, 2015, 08:09:04 PM
Mahirap naman kase ijustify pagtikim sa iba ng dahil sa ganun ganito si missis ng guy kaya nagawa iyon.. In the end mali pa rin..
Post by: lovemarie on March 03, 2015, 09:13:20 PM
Post by: jamesbond on March 04, 2015, 12:14:58 AM
Post by: fre_jo on March 04, 2015, 02:27:43 AM
1. sawa na
2. demanding ang girl
3. natatakot siyang mawala ang kanyang freedom
4. hindi magkasundo ang personalities
5. wala ng spark or fall out of love na
6. hindi pa nakamove-on sa ex
7. may mahal na siyang iba.. ouch :(
8. sagabal sa education o career goals
9. binabago mo siya
10. wala ng tiwala sa isat isa
11. walang time o di sapat ang atensyon na binibigay ni girl
12. natapakan ang pride
13. maraming ayaw sa relasyon nyo
14. trip ka lang nya
15. nasasakal siya
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 04:03:56 AM
^ mukhang marami ng nasabi sa itaas... s3x po for me ang unang dahilan na nakapag nawala sa isang relasyon ay iniiwan ng lalaki si babae.... s3x for me is the product of love, a testament perhaps on the love between loving couples.... 2nd siguro yung hindi paghanap ni babae sa kanya, parang lagi na lang siguro si lalaki ang nauunang maghanap sa kanya, parang pakiramdam ni guy eh sya na lang ng sya lagi ang naghahanap ng kanyang pansin, aba, napapagod din naman kaming mga guys, kung kayong mga babae ay gustong gusto nyo na kayo lagi ang sinusuyo eh hindi ba dapat paminsan minsan man lang ay makaramdam din naman kami ng ganyan? love should be a give and take process di po ba? eh kung mali ang sinasabi ko eh sana naman paki-correct din ako dito... ang alam ko lang kasi ay ang magmahal... eh yun lang po, salamat sa space at nakasagot po ako dito...Given those reasons you gave sir james...you think possible mo iwan ang isang babae na yan ang dahilan?
hmm.. di ko din nman kc msasagot to dahil di ako lalakiHmmm...naranasan mo na ba iwan ka ng guy? Sinabi nya ba sayo dahilan nya?eace: para malaman ko talaga ang knilang mga rason.. well, ito po ang aking mga napulot sa net n mga dahilan ng mga kalalakihang mga nang-iiwan.. ay mga mababait
1. sawa na
2. demanding ang girl
3. natatakot siyang mawala ang kanyang freedom
4. hindi magkasundo ang personalities
5. wala ng spark or fall out of love na
6. hindi pa nakamove-on sa ex
7. may mahal na siyang iba.. ouch :(
8. sagabal sa education o career goals
9. binabago mo siya
10. wala ng tiwala sa isat isa
11. walang time o di sapat ang atensyon na binibigay ni girl
12. natapakan ang pride
13. maraming ayaw sa relasyon nyo
14. trip ka lang nya
15. nasasakal siya
Post by: mer gency on March 04, 2015, 04:27:56 AM
hmm.. di ko din nman kc msasagot to dahil di ako lalaki :peace: para malaman ko talaga ang knilang mga rason.. well, ito po ang aking mga napulot sa net n mga dahilan ng mga kalalakihang mga nang-iiwan.. ay mga mababait :peace:Makasagot na rin ako ha kung mamarapatin ... for me kasi nilalagay ko lang sa 3 category ang dapat kasama sa relasyon between 2 person
1. sawa na
2. demanding ang girl
3. natatakot siyang mawala ang kanyang freedom
4. hindi magkasundo ang personalities
5. wala ng spark or fall out of love na
6. hindi pa nakamove-on sa ex
7. may mahal na siyang iba.. ouch :(
8. sagabal sa education o career goals
9. binabago mo siya
10. wala ng tiwala sa isat isa
11. walang time o di sapat ang atensyon na binibigay ni girl
12. natapakan ang pride
13. maraming ayaw sa relasyon nyo
14. trip ka lang nya
15. nasasakal siya
1. Respect
2. Acceptance
3. Trust
Now if any one of this is missing then it will be a factor pra mawalan na ng gana ang isang tao sa isang relasyon and without any one of this factor a relation is destined to doom even sa simula pa lang.... yung lang po
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 04:38:47 AM
Makasagot na rin ako ha kung mamarapatin ... for me kasi nilalagay ko lang sa 3 category ang dapat kasama sa relasyon between 2 personVery well said! Thank you for sharing your insights
1. Respect
2. Acceptance
3. Trust
Now if any one of this is missing then it will be a factor pra mawalan na ng gana ang isang tao sa isang relasyon and without any one of this factor a relation is destined to doom even sa simula pa lang.... yung lang po
Post by: fre_jo on March 04, 2015, 08:33:12 AM
Given those reasons you gave sir james...you think possible mo iwan ang isang babae na yan ang dahilan? Hmmm...naranasan mo na ba iwan ka ng guy? Sinabi nya ba sayo dahilan nya?
hmm.. naranasan ko n ung nidedma.. hindi nagpaparamdam, d text/tawag, d nag-oonline, wala ng komunikasyon, wala n ko alam tungkol sa kanya at wala n kong balita kung san sya npapad sa mundong ibabaw.. hmm.. in short iniwan nga :( :uwa: niloko at nagpakatanga lang ang peg ko (imagine almost 3 months ata un na hindi nagpaparamdam) :( :hilo:
tapos bigla nalang sya nagparamdam after nun, narealize daw nya na importante ako sa kanya... binigay rason kung bakit "takot harapin ang relasyon namin".. mahal daw ako - pero may pumipigil sa kanya na takot, na takot na masaktan ako? insecure sa magiging kinabukasan nmin? iniisip ung makakabuti sa kin? nahhhh ewan ???
un lang naduwag.. kaya bakit pa ko mag-aaksaya ng panahon sa taong ganun, kahit sabihin nya pa na magbabago na sya bigyan lang ng 2nd chance.. no way din, ginawa na sa yo un e, babalikan mo pa ba.. kaya sabihan nlang sya na no chance na mababalik pa ung dati, its good na friends nalang kayo.. un lang po :( :peace:
kaya mga girls na nakaranas ng ganto, wag kayo magpapaapekto, wag damdamin, wag dibdibin.. isipin niyo nalang na may darating pa na bago, better and the right one for you.. smile :)
Post by: fayt on March 04, 2015, 12:19:18 PM
2. Walang goal or passion
3. Timid/tamad sa s3x
4. Hindi ko na mahal
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 02:54:58 PM
hmm.. naranasan ko n ung nidedma.. hindi nagpaparamdam, d text/tawag, d nag-oonline, wala ng komunikasyon, wala n ko alam tungkol sa kanya at wala n kong balita kung san sya npapad sa mundong ibabaw.. hmm.. in short iniwan nga :( :uwa: niloko at nagpakatanga lang ang peg ko (imagine almost 3 months ata un na hindi nagpaparamdam) :( :hilo:The one who loves and value you truly will do anything to keep you no matter what...kung ganun sya kadali bumitaw and hindi man lang inisip ang feelings mo eh mas mahal nya sarili nya...go girl madaming isda sa dagat hehe...
tapos bigla nalang sya nagparamdam after nun, narealize daw nya na importante ako sa kanya... binigay rason kung bakit "takot harapin ang relasyon namin".. mahal daw ako - pero may pumipigil sa kanya na takot, na takot na masaktan ako? insecure sa magiging kinabukasan nmin? iniisip ung makakabuti sa kin? nahhhh ewan ???
un lang naduwag.. kaya bakit pa ko mag-aaksaya ng panahon sa taong ganun, kahit sabihin nya pa na magbabago na sya bigyan lang ng 2nd chance.. no way din, ginawa na sa yo un e, babalikan mo pa ba.. kaya sabihan nlang sya na no chance na mababalik pa ung dati, its good na friends nalang kayo.. un lang po :(
kaya mga girls na nakaranas ng ganto, wag kayo magpapaapekto, wag damdamin, wag dibdibin.. isipin niyo nalang na may darating pa na bago, better and the right one for you.. smile :)
1. Hindi mo maintindihan ang gusto sa buhayThank you sir fayt!
2. Walang goal or passion
3. Timid/tamad sa s3x
4. Hindi ko na mahal
Pansin ko laging factor sa lalaki ang s3x to keep him in a relationship hehe..
Post by: barumbadong_mabait44 on March 04, 2015, 03:10:18 PM
^ thank you din..sagot ka uli pag may bagong love question ah..
Ang sabi kase sa mga nababasa ko ang isang relationship 70% and six life and the rest sa love etc... Akin naman di naman puro six lang dapat tumatakbo and buhay or anu mang relasyon... Love, respect, understanding sa isa't-isa pa rin mahalaga...
Post by: Troll Montero on March 04, 2015, 04:01:02 PM
>:D >:D >:D >:D
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 04:03:46 PM
Because these guys do not love you...Toinkssss! Chaket naman TM di ka man lang nagpasintabi
>:D >:D >:D >:D
Post by: fre_jo on March 04, 2015, 04:57:00 PM
The one who loves and value you truly will do anything to keep you no matter what...kung ganun sya kadali bumitaw and hindi man lang inisip ang feelings mo eh mas mahal nya sarili nya...go girl madaming isda sa dagat hehe...
Thank you sir fayt!
Pansin ko laging factor sa lalaki ang s3x to keep him in a relationship hehe..
hay naku sinabi mo pa girl.. tapos now hahabol habol, naku mukha nya.. bwahahaha :)) :brucelee1:
oo nga bakit gnun ibang boys (pasintabi po), bakit s six lang ba naikot ung relationship nila.. diba dapat sa love.. hmmm.. nahilo ata ako dun :hilo:
Post by: fayt on March 04, 2015, 05:43:54 PM
Hindi lang naman iniisip ng lalake eto just only to suffice their needs. Need nyo rin kaya mga babae ang ganito. Hindi lang kami nakikinabang dito. Muka nga mas need nyo ang ganitong requirement more than we do. :peace: :peace: :-X
Post by: Troll Montero on March 04, 2015, 05:44:32 PM
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 06:00:09 PM
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Post by: jamesbond on March 04, 2015, 06:29:31 PM
Post by: Troll Montero on March 04, 2015, 06:51:15 PM
Salamat sa dalawang wafu sa taas hehe...hmmm...pero sir @fayt hindi naman siguro mas beneficial sa amin mga babae ang s3x noh hahahaha...
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Equals GUNI-GUNI po ms Love.... Doesn't exist! Kathang-isip... Imahinasyon, minsan ADIK lang
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 07:41:10 PM
TM! Hahaha guni guni pala ng adik yan? Ayayay!
Post by: jamesbond on March 04, 2015, 08:29:22 PM
Given those reasons you gave sir james...you think possible mo iwan ang isang babae na yan ang dahilan?
^ aba teka... mukhang nasentro naman sa akin ang attention ng topic hehehe.... As i have told you, all that is reflected here were generalized reasons of our forumers.. be that as it may, not only am i capable of leaving my girl if what i have declared here are my official reasons but i'm speaking for all men here... kapag wala ng lambing tingin mo ba may sense pa ang samahan? where is love there? hindi naman pwedeng galing pareho sa kumbento ang magsing irog na hindi nage-exist ang lambing... lambing is part of love chemistry and without it the word affection is compromised... s3x plays a vital role in a relationship, that is the epitome of love between lovers... emotions, affections, respect and all feelings you can think of can only be magnified in a single moment that is so sacred and precious to a couple...
Post by: lovemarie on March 04, 2015, 08:33:06 PM
^ aba teka... mukhang nasentro naman sa akin ang attention ng topic hehehe.... As i have told you, all that is reflected here were generalized reasons of our forumers.. be that as it may, not only am i capable of leaving my girl if what i have declared here are my official reasons but i'm speaking for all men here... kapag wala ng lambing tingin mo ba may sense pa ang samahan? where is love there? hindi naman pwedeng galing pareho sa kumbento ang magsing irog na hindi nage-exist ang lambing... lambing is part of love chemistry and without it the word affection is compromised... s3x plays a vital role in a relationship, that is the epitome of love between lovers... emotions, affections, respect and all feelings you can think of can only be magnified in a single moment that is so sacred and precious to a couple...Salamat sa pagsagot sir james! Muaahh...
Post by: fayt on March 05, 2015, 12:26:00 PM
sa amin walang masyado changes na nanyayare after neto o kahit sobrang biyaya kami sa ganito samantala sa mga babae, malaking ang pinagkaiba sa looks at sa aura pag sagana sila sa dilig... :suka3: :peace: :peace: :-X :-X
Post by: lovemarie on March 05, 2015, 07:11:34 PM
At sa lahat ng nagbahagi ng kanilang puso at isipan sa aking unang tanong maraming salamat!!!
Para sa aking sunod na Love Question...dahil ito sa narinig kong kanta habang ako'y pauwi...mga ka PT Sino ba ang dapat piliin?[/i][/color]
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Post by: Troll Montero on March 05, 2015, 07:52:49 PM
Post by: lovemarie on March 05, 2015, 07:55:41 PM
mas masarap mahalin yung taong hindi ka mahal lol! toinks...Ahahaha...gusto mo ng challenge ano?
Post by: Troll Montero on March 05, 2015, 08:05:14 PM
Ahahaha...gusto mo ng challenge ano?
hehehe hindi naman po ms love... sumasagot lang ako.. sabi nila malalaman mo lang na mahal mo ang isang tao kapag nasasaktan ka na hehe...
Post by: Cathrina on March 05, 2015, 08:21:06 PM
Post by: lovemarie on March 05, 2015, 08:40:54 PM
hehehe hindi naman po ms love... sumasagot lang ako.. sabi nila malalaman mo lang na mahal mo ang isang tao kapag nasasaktan ka na hehe...Aww..sadista ng pag ibig na nais mo hehehe...
Yong O nalang piliin ko sis loveM haha...sakin yong mahal ako kasi lam ko naman sa sarili ko na matutunan ko siyang mahalin basta may effort ang isang tao...seryoso >:DSabagay tama ka dyan sis madaling madevelop daw ang mga babae eh
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Post by: lovemarie on March 05, 2015, 08:50:34 PM
I choose "mahal ako" para pamper hihi sarap kaya maglambing sa taong mahal ka sb sis loveM?Mga guys gusto pala ni LV niispoil sya oh....ayyieeee!!!
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Post by: fre_jo on March 05, 2015, 11:08:35 PM
pipiliin ko ung "mahal ako".. tulad ng nasa lyrics "ang nais ko ay maranasan ang umibig at masuklian din ang pag ibig".. ang hanap ko ung totoong magmamahal di ung sasaktan ako dahil ako lang ang nagmamahal.. ouch :( matututunan mo din sya mahalin, higit pa sa minahal mo nun una.. hays.. senti mode ito ??? ::)
Post by: lovemarie on March 05, 2015, 11:32:48 PM
:uwa: ::) fave ko to, lagi ko to pinapakinggan sis LoveM.. thanks..Aweee napa senti mode tuloy kita hehe...mahirap talaga pag di nasusuklian ang pagmamahal dadating yung punto na mauubusan ka.
pipiliin ko ung "mahal ako".. tulad ng nasa lyrics "ang nais ko ay maranasan ang umibig at masuklian din ang pag ibig".. ang hanap ko ung totoong magmamahal di ung sasaktan ako dahil ako lang ang nagmamahal.. ouch :( matututunan mo din sya mahalin, higit pa sa minahal mo nun una.. hays.. senti mode ito ??? ::)
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Post by: fayt on March 06, 2015, 12:36:20 PM
anyway, bilateral naman ang love at hindi pwede one sided lang... pero kung papapiliin ko syempre dun sa mahal ko na....
hirap naman pag gusto mo eh love lang ako parang kasi nagcocompromise lang ako sa nararamdaman nya for me...
Post by: Heathcliff on March 07, 2015, 08:14:57 AM
Nakaka dawiwi naman ang tanong na yan..!
Parang gusto ko mag overdose ng Combantrin pramis! Hehehe..,
Complicated questions.
Pag mahal ka... Nde mo naman mahal.. No sense at all to stay diba?
Pag nde ka naman mahal... Everyday firing squad yan..
Pag 'O' naman ang pinili mo...
Pakak!!!
Diretso na sa retirement ang alindog ... Hanggang sa matusim na ng tuluyan.
Hihi.., yan lang sagot ko sa tanong mo sissy... Ayaw ko sumagot ng seryoso...baka ma frozen delight ang asim ng puso ko..
Babu!
PS:
Nice thread Sissy.. :) :) :)
Post by: lovemarie on March 07, 2015, 02:24:15 PM
medyo bitin kasi ang tanong... hmmm.... mas okay talaga ang mahal ako kesa taong mahal ko pero hindi naman ako pansin... maraming anggulo ang tanong mo mam labs but bottomline is that it is better to be loved than to love.... pero mas better if you both love each other....Para sayo sir james it's better to receive than give hmmmm...mas pipiliin mo bigyan ka ng pagmamahal kesa ikaw ang magbigay sa pagkakaintindi ko sa choice mo...thanks for the reply
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yun mahal ko... coz i will dump you if i dont love you....Yep love is a two way thing...
anyway, bilateral naman ang love at hindi pwede one sided lang... pero kung papapiliin ko syempre dun sa mahal ko na....
hirap naman pag gusto mo eh love lang ako parang kasi nagcocompromise lang ako sa nararamdaman nya for me...
I can sense that you are firm with regards to loving
Hahaha...good point sis ah...hirap ng ikaw lang ang nagmamahal at hirap din ng hindi mo mahal...yay! Lenchak na pag ibig!
Nakaka dawiwi naman ang tanong na yan..!
Parang gusto ko mag overdose ng Combantrin pramis! Hehehe..,
Complicated questions.
Pag mahal ka... Nde mo naman mahal.. No sense at all to stay diba?
Pag nde ka naman mahal... Everyday firing squad yan..
Pag 'O' naman ang pinili mo...
Pakak!!!
Diretso na sa retirement ang alindog ... Hanggang sa matusim na ng tuluyan.
Hihi.., yan lang sagot ko sa tanong mo sissy... Ayaw ko sumagot ng seryoso...baka ma frozen delight ang asim ng puso ko..
Babu!
PS:
Nice thread Sissy.. :) :) :)
Post by: Heathcliff on March 07, 2015, 08:17:36 PM
Para sayo sir james it's better to receive than give hmmmm...mas pipiliin mo bigyan ka ng pagmamahal kesa ikaw ang magbigay sa pagkakaintindi ko sa choice mo...thanks for the reply
I can sense that you are firm with regards to loving
I therefore conclude... Yung 'O' na lang...
Firing Squad! No pain, no heartaches...kahit happy moments... Okay lang kahit wala...
Basta walang masakit. Diba?
: hilo:
Post by: lovemarie on March 07, 2015, 08:27:26 PM
Mag adik na lang tayo sa anesthesia sis nyahaha!
I therefore conclude... Yung 'O' na lang...
Firing Squad! No pain, no heartaches...kahit happy moments... Okay lang kahit wala...
Basta walang masakit. Diba?
: hilo:
Post by: Heathcliff on March 07, 2015, 08:29:27 PM
Anong dosage mo? Hihi..bigyan mo ako... Lol!
... Next question na.
Dali...
Hmnn...
Post by: mer gency on March 08, 2015, 03:50:29 AM
Post by: lovemarie on March 09, 2015, 12:23:27 PM
pra ng wlang choice kundi mamili sis hmmm if between the two chices I'll choose yung mahal ko mas masarap pakiramdam kesa nman ikaw ang mahal tapos di mo gusto pra kang pinapako sa cruz al the time ms mainam n yung ikaw magmamahal kahit papano masarap pkiramdam nun but just be ready to anything that might happen in the future kung masasaktan ka but its part of love di mo maaapreciate ang sarap ng love kung di ka nasaktan... own opinion lang poTumpak! Ma appreciate mo ang masarap kung ikaw ay nasaktan na
Salamat sa pagdaan!
Post by: Troll Montero on March 10, 2015, 02:45:09 PM
Post by: Heathcliff on March 10, 2015, 03:02:58 PM
Yung "O" ba yun ang big "Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh" deym mas masarap nga piliin yun... parang FUBU lang, walang personalan Hornihan lang
Troll
Ang O na sinabi ko sa post ko ay wag mo bigyan ng malisya..
Pakiusap lang ang malinis na katuwaan dito wag mo bigyan ng sagot na katarantaduhan.
Wag mo simulan ng sagot na may halong kabastusan .. Kung maari lang...
Ibagay mo naman sa post koment mo na tinutukoy ang kaberdehan mong sagot.
Pwede ko ba ipa alala na wala ka sa usapang sekswal nandito ka sa General Discussion area.
Kaya wag mo haluan ng tarantaduhang usapan!!!!!!
Post by: Troll Montero on March 10, 2015, 03:15:12 PM
Troll
Ang O na sinabi ko sa post ko ay wag mo bigyan ng malisya..
Pakiusap lang ang malinis na katuwaan dito wag mo bigyan ng sagot na katarantaduhan.
Wag mo simulan ng sagot na may halong kabastusan .. Kung maari lang...
Ibagay mo naman sa post koment mo na tinutukoy ang kaberdehan mong sagot.
Pwede ko ba ipa alala na wala ka sa usapang sekswal nandito ka sa General Discussion area.
Kaya wag mo haluan ng tarantaduhang usapan!!!!!!
NOTED!!!!
Post by: Heathcliff on March 10, 2015, 03:50:23 PM
Troll Montero,
Pakilagyan ng plaster at idikit sa NOO yang 'noted' word na yan.
Walang personalan , respeto lang.
Post by: Troll Montero on March 10, 2015, 04:45:15 PM
Pakilagyan ng plaster at idikit sa NOO yang 'noted' word na yan.
Walang personalan , respeto lang.
AGAIN NOTED!
Post by: Heathcliff on March 10, 2015, 05:45:49 PM
AGAIN NOTED!
Dont use that all caps on me.. Wag ka sumigaw.., Hindi Bulalo kausap mo kaya huwag ka mag asal Bulalo.
Post by: lovemarie on March 10, 2015, 06:07:03 PM
For my next LOVE (marie's) Question[/color]
Can a Rebound Relationship Be the Real Deal?[/i]
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Break-ups can be heart-wrenching experiences, marked by distress, unhappiness, even a loss of sense of self (Lewandowski, Aron, Bassis & Kunak, 2006).
Can seeking comfort in someone new help the healing process, or is diving into a relationship too quickly after a break-up an unfair and unhealthy way to move forward? Are rebound relationships always doomed to be temporary flings, or can they become long-term, stable, and happy partnerships?
Post by: jamesbond on March 10, 2015, 06:31:36 PM
Osha mga friendships ko change topic na tayo ah...pinagpapawisan na ako ng malapot senyo ahihihi...
For my next LOVE (marie's) Question[/color]
Can a Rebound Relationship Be the Real Deal?[/i]
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Break-ups can be heart-wrenching experiences, marked by distress, unhappiness, even a loss of sense of self (Lewandowski, Aron, Bassis & Kunak, 2006).
Can seeking comfort in someone new help the healing process, or is diving into a relationship too quickly after a break-up an unfair and unhealthy way to move forward? Are rebound relationships always doomed to be temporary flings, or can they become long-term, stable, and happy partnerships?
uhmm... parang true-to-life ito ah hmmm... diving into another relationship after a break-up of course brings comfort but i guess it depends on the individual hopping from a failed relationship to agreeing to another relationship... baka naman kasi may nabuo nang feelings before bago mag-hop sa new relationship kaya hindi gaanong ininda ang losing relationship to a new one... pero syempre hindi ganun kadali din kalimutan ang past relationship especially if the 'new' one has ties with the former, mahirap i-iwas ang topics, mapaguusapan at mapag uusapan talaga... lalo kung madalas ka maikwento nung dati sa bago, so mahirap din...like halimbawa yung alam na may ulcer ka kasi naikwento nung dati sa bago before and then pilit mong itinatago sa bago para lang hindi mag-worry, yung mga ganyan.... I don't think a rebound relationship is a temporary thing, depende pa din sa couple invilved on how they handle their new found love.. maturity plays a major role here...
Post by: Troll Montero on March 10, 2015, 06:48:48 PM
Highly Noted
Post by: lovemarie on March 10, 2015, 08:02:47 PM
uhmm... parang true-to-life ito ah hmmm... diving into another relationship after a break-up of course brings comfort but i guess it depends on the individual hopping from a failed relationship to agreeing to another relationship... baka naman kasi may nabuo nang feelings before bago mag-hop sa new relationship kaya hindi gaanong ininda ang losing relationship to a new one... pero syempre hindi ganun kadali din kalimutan ang past relationship especially if the 'new' one has ties with the former, mahirap i-iwas ang topics, mapaguusapan at mapag uusapan talaga... lalo kung madalas ka maikwento nung dati sa bago, so mahirap din...like halimbawa yung alam na may ulcer ka kasi naikwento nung dati sa bago before and then pilit mong itinatago sa bago para lang hindi mag-worry, yung mga ganyan.... I don't think a rebound relationship is a temporary thing, depende pa din sa couple invilved on how they handle their new found love.. maturity plays a major role here...Sir james true to life ba? Eh bat ganun may gusto ka i secret? Pano mo masasabing real deal na kung may bagay na gusto mo itago sa kanya?
Post by: Heathcliff on March 10, 2015, 08:14:27 PM
Dont use that all caps on me.. Wag ka sumigaw.., Hindi Bulalo kausap mo kaya huwag ka mag asal Bulalo.
Highly Noted
Hindi ka dapat patulan Troll ... Pero sa pinapakita mo dito.. Inaakala mo yata lahat ng Venus at babae dito sa PT ay kaya mong hatakin pababa ng kabastusan mo ...
Halos lahat ng post koments mo puno at tadtad ng kabastusan at kahalayan... Sayang ang Badge mo bilang ECM ... Kaya kong sabihin na You dont deserve that Badge!
Hindi bulag ang tao dito lalo na ang staff... Yang kabastusan mo sa bawat matinong thread dito... Lagi mo pinapasukan ng wala sa topic na mga koments mo...
Ano sa akala mo itotolerate ng mga babae yan dito?
FYI lang.., hindi lahat ng babaeng kasapi ng PT ay pwede mo patungkulan ng komentong kabastusan.
Obviously... Malibog ka... Well.., may tamang area ang Pinoytambay para sa mga mahalay na tulad mo.,,
Wag mo dalhin ang dumi ng utak mo sa mga thread na malinaw kung saan inilagay ng thread starter.
Kung sanay ka na karamihan sa babaeng nakakausap mo ay todo pasa at iniignore ang mga kabastusang pasaring mo..,
Nagkakamali ka! Hindi lahat dito ay mangingiming itanggi ang kahalayan mo.
Now kung mahalaga sayo ang badge mo bilang ECM.. Patunayan mo! At wag mo daanin sa paulit ulit na pag aasal bulalo.
Post by: jamesbond on March 10, 2015, 08:26:36 PM
Sir james true to life ba? Eh bat ganun may gusto ka i secret? Pano mo masasabing real deal na kung may bagay na gusto mo itago sa kanya?
eh parang true to life lang sa aking palagay... parang nahahawig lang.... at that time maybe nagulat lang yung guy cguro, he didn't thought of such real things have also been told by the old love to her friend which is in this case his new love... ironically, nakakagulat din talaga, tipong napaisip cguro yung guy na bakit alam ni new love to think na hindi pa naman talaga nasasabi ang mga ganun sa kanya ni guy and syempre when asked si new ni guy sasabihin na sinabi sa kanya nuon ni old... and at that time, they both entered the relationship with readiness and of freewill, it just happened... it was a real deal alright and being a real deal, for me, is not the issue there but more on being surprised to note na alam pala ni new love na may medical case pala si guy na ganun... it's not also about secrecy, malalaman at malalaman din naman pero naitatago lang temporarily on purpose just for the simple reason na ayaw lang mag-worry cguro nung new love ni guy... and baka may masabi din naman si new love na baka mahinang klase ang lalaki, paimportante na di maewan, turn off? hahaha... maybe so, kanya kanyang dala ng self esteem ang tao, and at the end of the day it is how they show their love the most and not to bring worrisome is one of them... thanks po...
Post by: lovemarie on March 10, 2015, 08:35:48 PM
eh parang true to life lang sa aking palagay... parang nahahawig lang.... at that time maybe nagulat lang yung guy cguro, he didn't thought of such real things have also been told by the old love to her friend which is in this case his new love... ironically, nakakagulat din talaga, tipong napaisip cguro yung guy na bakit alam ni new love to think na hindi pa naman talaga nasasabi ang mga ganun sa kanya ni guy and syempre when asked si new ni guy sasabihin na sinabi sa kanya nuon ni old... and at that time, they both entered the relationship with readiness and of freewill, it just happened... it was a real deal alright and being a real deal, for me, is not the issue there but more on being surprised to note na alam pala ni new love na may medical case pala si guy na ganun... it's not also about secrecy, malalaman at malalaman din naman pero naitatago lang temporarily on purpose just for the simple reason na ayaw lang mag-worry cguro nung new love ni guy... and baka may masabi din naman si new love na baka mahinang klase ang lalaki, paimportante na di maewan, turn off? hahaha... maybe so, kanya kanyang dala ng self esteem ang tao, and at the end of the day it is how they show their love the most and not to bring worrisome is one of them... thanks po...Point taken hehehe...maraming salamat sa pagsagot
Post by: lovemarie on March 10, 2015, 08:36:31 PM
Can a Rebound Relationship Be the Real Deal?
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Break-ups can be heart-wrenching experiences, marked by distress, unhappiness, even a loss of sense of self (Lewandowski, Aron, Bassis & Kunak, 2006).
Can seeking comfort in someone new help the healing process, or is diving into a relationship too quickly after a break-up an unfair and unhealthy way to move forward? Are rebound relationships always doomed to be temporary flings, or can they become long-term, stable, and happy partnerships?
Post by: naruto789544 on March 10, 2015, 10:31:40 PM
Post by: fayt on March 11, 2015, 12:25:07 PM
. Sayang ang Badge mo bilang ECM ... Kaya kong sabihin na You dont deserve that Badge!
Now kung mahalaga sayo ang badge mo bilang ECM.. Patunayan mo
i want to comment on this part
it seems kasi na naddrag na yun "Pagiging ECM" na tagged at baka maging trending din sa twitter ehh. FYI lang po, kahit na ECM kami eh may sarili pa rin kami way kung paano namin ipinapakita member dito sa PT. May kanya kanya style sa pagreply or pagsagot sa mga comments. We do not act in standards as ECM kasi wala naman standards na nakaset sa pagiging ECM. We apply and na grants sa amin ang privilegde na to. Nasa sa amin na kung paano na namin pangangaalagaan to o ano pa man.
It seems unfair kasi na we tagged na dapat ECM eh ganito o ganyan. Wala kasi tayo sa posisyon to said that dahil wala naman nakaset na rules para maging ECM and which is the same naman sa Venus (except na babae ka dapat) o any groups na may badge dito sa PT. May specific requirements pero hindi nakasaad na dapat ganito kami na parang pulis pangkalawakan. Eh kapag ba hindi namin na meet ang standards nyo eh hindi na kami karapat dapat sa ECM?
Hindi rin naman tayo mga admins/staff na para ipoint nyo sa amin na dapat maging ganito kami sa pagpopost o sa kung ano man gawin dito. Iisa lang ang common sa atin, to abide the forum rules which is stated yan kahit ano pang member na kinabibilangan natin. Wala ni isa sa amin na dapat magpatunay na karapat dapat ba kami sa posisyon dahil nagrant na sa amin eto kaya napatunayan na namin to at hindi na kailangan pa ng ibang approval sa kahit ano man miyembro dito (except admins/staff).
Yun lang naman ang akin pero kung sa tingin natin eh may pagkabias ang aking komento, nasa sa inyo na yan at hindi na ako papatol sa ganitong away. Hindi ko na rin sya pinalabas as PM para naman malaman din ng ibang miyembro dito about sa ECM or any groups dito sa PT.
peace to all
fayt
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on topic naman
if rebound as per se, syempre NO ako dyan. Unfair naman sa isang kapartner mo na totoo ang feelings sa yo then ikaw nakikita mo lang sya as panakip butas. Kapag kasi kabrebreak lang, masyado pa magulo ang ating isipan sa kung ano ba ang nararamdaman natin. Baka nga mahal natin sya nun time na yun pero malaki pa rin ang chance na hindi mo rin sya mahal. Take time para magheal sa kung ano man sakit ang naramdaman ng break ups. At saka na magmahal at maghanap ng iba after mong makamove on para malinaw ang ating isipan sa kung ano ba talaga ang nararamdaman natin para sa kanya.
Post by: Heathcliff on March 11, 2015, 01:01:09 PM
Fayt ,
Ikaw ba ay nagkoment as ECM Or bilang ikaw ?
Kung iisipin technically wala sa rules yan as an ECM ... Para saan at bakit may ganyan dito sa PT?
Sa lagay bilang ECM walang kalakip na responsibility ang Badge na yan?
At kung para sa ilan o para sayo.... Balewala yang badge na yan e bakit nag apply pa kayo?!
Simple ang punto ng sinabi ko.., hindi tayo bata sa forum na ito... Ilagay natin sa tama ang bawat salita at aksyon natin at iayon sa area kung nasaan tayo.
At FYI lang din...
Ano sa palagay nyo ginagawa ng MODS at Staff ng PT sa application ng bawat member para maging ECM?!
... Alangan naman tinititigan lang nila yan? Hindi ba't matamang pinag aaralan nilang lahat yan at minsan e pinagtatalunan pa?!
Madali ba maging ECM? Hindi ba't mahirap? May naging ECM ba dito na isang iglap lang e may badge na sya agad?
Walang pinag aawayan dito. This is just a normal argument inuulit ko walang away dito... Simpleng argumento ng prinsipyo sa prinsipyo... Wala ng iba.
ECM , Venus or hindi... May reaponsibilty tayo na umakto ng tama sa forum na ito.
Lalo't higit kaming mga Venus... Napakahirap na buuin muli ang samahan na yan matapos ang pagkawasak nyan.. Ano't ngayon e mula sa myembro nyo kami nakakaranas ng sablay na komento?!
It took us almost a year to rebuild what was left of this group.. Ituwid kung ano ang naging baluktot sa naunang reputasyon ng grupo... And then ganyan ang matatanggap namin?!
Iilan na lang kaming active dito.., tanging ang TS ng thread na ito... Ang masipag mag isip ng mga bagong threads para sa lahat... Pagkatapos ganyan?!
Now you tell me... Venus man kami o hindi... Dapat ba na ang mga babaeng myembro ng PT e makatanggap ng ganyang mahalay na komento... ?
Interactive, General Discussion area...?! Tama ba yang ganyan?! Tama ba na natotolerate yan dito sa area na ito e wala naman tayo sa usapang six?!
Hanggang kailan yang ganyan na mga sixual comments na yan kahit wala sa topic?!
Kapag ang babae passive , kayong mga lalaki ano iisipin nyo?!
Bastusin, easy.... Mahalay na babae!
Kapag naman nagrereact... Ano?!
Guilty, defensive.... Lalo babastusin... Tama o mali?!
Ang hirap sa inyo kaming mga babae walang paglagyan dito!
Malinaw ang forum rules... Iayon ang koment sa tamang area o thread... Still... Nakakalusot yang ganyan...
.... Depende sa kausap, depende sa babae.
Kung ganyan laging lulusot ang mga pasaring na mahalay...
Kapwa tawad na lang... May ma babaeng may bayag din para salagin yang ganyang kabastusan.
Prinsipyo. Hindi komo PT is known as men catered website... Ang mga babaeng member dito ay pikit matang tatanggapin yang trato nyo samen sa boards na ito.
Uulitin ko din... Ang sinabi ko .. Wala akong pakialam tamaan ang mga ECM o sino dyan...
Bilang babaeng myembro ng PT... Ako bilang Venus ... May kalakip na responsibilidad ang badge na yan.
Respeto ang katapat.
Ngayon kung para sa inyo ay wala...
Pare pareho na lang natin hubarin ang badge naten !!
Post by: xxxmoimoixxx on March 11, 2015, 01:53:29 PM
it starts with love.. this is the very first thing why we are into a relationship.
so pag wala na yan maghihiwalay nga talaga.
always go back where it starts.. L-O-V-E
:peace: :peace: :peace:
Post by: lovemarie on March 11, 2015, 02:42:18 PM
Tama ka dyan sir@fayt ...it is the most selfish thing to do...yung gawing panakip butas ang isang tao.
Sir @xxxmoimoixxx, tumpak pag ibig nagsisimula ang lahat
Sa tingin nyo tama yung sinasabing 3-month rule? Yung palipas muna 3 months bago umibig muli...para hindi masabing "rebound" lang.
Post by: Troll Montero on March 11, 2015, 03:30:45 PM
Halos lahat ng post koments mo puno at tadtad ng kabastusan at kahalayan... Sayang ang Badge mo bilang ECM ... Kaya kong sabihin na You dont deserve that Badge!
Hindi bulag ang tao dito lalo na ang staff... Yang kabastusan mo sa bawat matinong thread dito... Lagi mo pinapasukan ng wala sa topic na mga koments mo...
Ano sa akala mo itotolerate ng mga babae yan dito?
FYI lang.., hindi lahat ng babaeng kasapi ng PT ay pwede mo patungkulan ng komentong kabastusan.
Obviously... Malibog ka... Well.., may tamang area ang Pinoytambay para sa mga mahalay na tulad mo.,,
Wag mo dalhin ang dumi ng utak mo sa mga thread na malinaw kung saan inilagay ng thread starter.
Kung sanay ka na karamihan sa babaeng nakakausap mo ay todo pasa at iniignore ang mga kabastusang pasaring mo..,
Nagkakamali ka! Hindi lahat dito ay mangingiming itanggi ang kahalayan mo.
Now kung mahalaga sayo ang badge mo bilang ECM.. Patunayan mo! At wag mo daanin sa paulit ulit na pag aasal bulalo.
Will do... noted... :D
Post by: lovemarie on March 11, 2015, 03:36:16 PM
Post by: Troll Montero on March 11, 2015, 04:02:38 PM
How about kung pumatol ka sa may asawa pa? it is a form of rebound? eh yung mga mag ka FUBU? rebound din ba yun? kase di ba parang pinupunan mo ang pagkukulang nang iba.. so panakip butas(rebound).
PS...
yung 3 months rule di ako naniniwala dun.. ang tao kase nasa kanya kung papaano siya nag move on sa isang relasyon.. may iba na gusto maging lonely sa mahabang panahon, meron naman ibang handa na maging masaya ulit sa piling nang iba...
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 11, 2015, 04:31:01 PM
Go on to the topic......
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Post by: lovemarie on March 11, 2015, 07:13:07 PM
Yes of course... kase puede naman ma-inlove ang isang nasaktan duon sa kanyang panakip butas(rebound). So many times nasubukan ko maging panakip butas sa mga babaeng lonely..Na in love ka dun sa ginawa kang panakip butas? Hindi ba masakit yun kasi alam mo ginagamit ka lang eh...
How about kung pumatol ka sa may asawa pa? it is a form of rebound? eh yung mga mag ka FUBU? rebound din ba yun? kase di ba parang pinupunan mo ang pagkukulang nang iba.. so panakip butas(rebound).
PS...
yung 3 months rule di ako naniniwala dun.. ang tao kase nasa kanya kung papaano siya nag move on sa isang relasyon.. may iba na gusto maging lonely sa mahabang panahon, meron naman ibang handa na maging masaya ulit sa piling nang iba...
Agree ako sayo about sa 3 month rule...well said
Sis @ladyvirus01...muahhh!
Post by: jamesbond on March 11, 2015, 07:49:41 PM
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Post by: fayt on March 11, 2015, 08:15:00 PM
Post by: lovemarie on March 11, 2015, 08:18:54 PM
i strongly agree with the non-compliance of the 3 month rule... wala sa tagal ng pagpapagaling ng sugat yan it's how you have coped up with depression..: nasa tao pa din yan... tama sinabi ni brader troll, agree ako 100%....Nadale ba ni TM? Hehehe ..
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pero kung gagawin lang ako rebound na fubu eh ayos na ayos yan :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:Nyahaha.. Dami ko tawa dito sir mga 'sang dosena!!!! Ayos ka talaga hahaha..
Post by: lovemarie on March 12, 2015, 01:20:03 PM
Love (marie's) Question[/color]
Why Do People in Happy Relationships Still Cheat?
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You’d think that a happy relationship would control a wandering eye. But why people still choose to cheat?
Just when you thought that cheating while in a happy relationship wasn’t possible. People are still likely to cheat even when they’re perfectly happy with their partners. Some even go so far as to search for their own affairs. Is it a secret desire or is it just human nature?
Post by: Troll Montero on March 12, 2015, 02:27:37 PM
Mahirap paniwalaan na may tao palang nag Cheat pa maski happy na sa relasyon niya... Kase kung ako ay Happy di na ako Mag Cheat...
Kung pagbabasihan ko ang larawan dito. Ang sagot ko as tanong mo ay::::::: Mas madame kase ang babae kesa sa lalake...
Post by: lovemarie on March 12, 2015, 02:39:48 PM
Shabu pa!!!! grabiiii!!!! Niloko ka Beh!!!!I have read an article by Danielle Anne Suelik and it says...
Mahirap paniwalaan na may tao palang nag Cheat pa maski happy na sa relasyon niya... Kase kung ako ay Happy di na ako Mag Cheat...
Kung pagbabasihan ko ang larawan dito. Ang sagot ko as tanong mo ay::::::: Mas madame kase ang babae kesa sa lalake...
"A recent study managed to shock everyone, when it said that 56% of men and 34% of women in happy marriages cheat."
Post by: Troll Montero on March 12, 2015, 03:17:30 PM
I have read an article by Danielle Anne Suelik and it says...
"A recent study managed to shock everyone, when it said that 56% of men and 34% of women in happy marriages cheat."
sa 56% na men ilan kaya ang bakla duon??? hehehe
Post by: lovemarie on March 12, 2015, 04:24:51 PM
sa 56% na men ilan kaya ang bakla duon??? heheheHuh??? Bakla kaya nag cheat?
Post by: jamesbond on March 12, 2015, 06:19:05 PM
Post by: lovemarie on March 12, 2015, 06:40:24 PM
wag na kayo magtalo na dalawa jan sa itaas ko^... ke happy or not ang isang tao sa kanyang relationship still he or she can always cheat... it depends upon the person him or herself... like kung may gf ka tapos at may iba pang ka-fubu so iba din yun... bf ka na tapos ang gf mo may ibang kumakalantare eh iba din yun... so as we can all see, it depends talaga sa tao mismo up to how far he or she can go, how she or he can push her/his luck in playing the cheating game... pakiramdaman na lang talaga kung behave or seryoso talaga ang partner mo syo.... and same goes with any gender, bakla, straight or lesbian, any gender is capable of cheating...Opo depende talaga sa tao...pero why do you think happy naman sya sa relationship nya pinipili pa rin nya mag cheat? Ano kaya ang nagtutulak sa isang tao na wala naman problema sa current relationship nya pero pinipili pa rin magkaron ng iba?
Post by: jamesbond on March 12, 2015, 07:49:23 PM
Opo depende talaga sa tao...pero why do you think happy naman sya sa relationship nya pinipili pa rin nya mag cheat? Ano kaya ang nagtutulak sa isang tao na wala naman problema sa current relationship nya pero pinipili pa rin magkaron ng iba?
hard to resist temptation i guess.... tipong wala sa loob ng isang lalaki na may nagkakagusto pala sa kanya na iba then biglang darating ang punto na bigla na lang may magpapakita ng motibo sa kanya, okay lang sana kung motibo pa lang eh paano kung biglang naghubad sa harap mo at ayain ka ng tikman mo sya... syempre lalaki lang yan at madaling madarang at matukso... paano iiwas kung sa kanyang pag-iwas naman ay mababansagan naman syang bakla o takot sa kanyang gf o asawa.. laging nakataya ang pride ng lalaki so mahirap umiwas... teetering to breach trust and loyalty... guys have the tendency to jump into such cheating game especially if they have love problems, madali sya matukso para lang makaiwas sa problema nya sa kanyang gf... so my advice would be to keep your partner be loved and satisfied, talk and solve your problems or misunderstandings before going to sleep or before calling it a day... (http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/15/03/12/f5d624db68ff1be07a8263054adca016.jpg)
Post by: lovemarie on March 12, 2015, 08:00:13 PM
So does this mean na naniniwala ka na ang nagchicheat lang ay yung hindi happy sa lovelife?
Post by: jamesbond on March 12, 2015, 08:11:40 PM
Sabi mo sir @jamesbond ..."guys have the tendency to jump into such cheating games especially if they have love problems" ...don't get me wrong here... well, most of the time yes, those who have love problems are susceptible to such cheating but not always... there are times na happy naman sa lovelife but was only exposed to temptations, gaya ng una kong pahayag dito, nakataya ang pride ng lalaki lagi kaya hirap umiwas... hmmm.... why don't we up the ante, say, what about girls with love problems naman... o hindi ba may naririnig din tayong mga term na "shoulder to cry on"? yun pala eh nahuhumaling na sa ka iyakan... now, the next question would be "who's much weaker to resist temptation, was it us boys or you girls?"...
So does this mean na naniniwala ka na ang nagchicheat lang ay yung hindi happy sa lovelife?
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Post by: lovemarie on March 13, 2015, 12:24:36 PM
People cheat for different reasons. When they’re in a happy relationship, those reasons tend to garner less sympathy. So what are those reasons?
From my point of view...
Romance. Yes, romance is still there in happy relationships. But if someone comes along and makes you feel hotter and more passionate than the way you do with your current partner, cheating suddenly becomes an option.
The thrill. A happy relationship can sometimes become monotonous. Happy doesn’t equate to boring, but the line starts to get blurry when you stay with someone long enough without anything new happening.
No accountability. No matter how happy a person is, when the opportunity presents itself to cheat without any repercussions, it’s possible that they will go for it. And if illicit activities won’t give them any problems and as long as they’re absolutely sure that they won’t get caught.
Past lovers. You’re right in being apprehensive about a partner spending time with their ex. An inappropriate level of frequency and context of meetings could likely end up in an affair, because they have history, are both adults with raging hormones and can resolve themselves to the fact that it can happen because they’ve done it before.
The opportunity is there. We may be human beings with the power of thought and free will, but a good percentage of our body is still made up of the same biological elements as animals. If we are easily aroused by normal triggers like the nakedness of a person or simple stimulation, there’s no saying if we have the ability to stop ourselves from having an affair or not.
Cheating can happen when you least expect it. It’s not inevitable, but it is possible.
Post by: jamesbond on March 13, 2015, 05:58:02 PM
Post by: magbubukid on March 15, 2015, 07:12:41 PM
Post by: naruto789544 on March 20, 2015, 11:48:50 PM
1. if you are satisfied with something, you are not going to look for another thing...
2. if you are satisfied with someone already, you are not going to look for another one...
3. if you are satisfied with what you feel, then you are not going to look for affection from somebody else...
it is all of our inherent description of satisfaction and happiness... no matter how you say it or defend something, it all boils down to this..."you don't go around looking for something if you have already found it.."
Post by: lovemarie on April 01, 2015, 02:26:37 PM
Here's my next LOVE (marie's) Question
How will you know if it is Love or Lust?
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Is it love or lust that you’re experiencing with your partner? Sometimes, you may think you’re in love without really realizing that there’s no love in the relationship, but just lust.
The happiest relationships are those where there’s a perfect balance of love and lust.
But what is it that you’re experiencing, is it love or lust?
How does one know?
Post by: Troll Montero on April 01, 2015, 02:39:30 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 01, 2015, 02:47:19 PM
di ba dapat dalawa palagi hindi dapat magkahiwalay ang love at lust... well you'll never know until you had s-ex with someone na pinaghihinalaan mo lol...
aw! after having s3x how wil you know na love mo at hindi lang lust? may signs ka ba hinahanap? hehehe
Post by: Troll Montero on April 01, 2015, 02:57:59 PM
aw! after having s3x how wil you know na love mo at hindi lang lust? may signs ka ba hinahanap? hehehe
kapag love ko siya hindi ako mag juan flavier kase love and last ko na siya nun... gagawa na kame nang baby.. if lust lang lets do it eka nga ni senator! ma i-feel mo yun sa unang baon ibang ang feeling kapag nasa loob ka na nang kanyang pag ibig, nararamdaman mo iyon.. iba ang hugot parang sumama ang kaluluwa... kung lust naman parang ohhh syete! parang walang specia... masarap lang lol,,, tapos naiisip mo na huli na ito wala nang next hehe.
oppps i did it again... baka mamiligro na naman ako..
Post by: lovemarie on April 01, 2015, 05:12:12 PM
kapag love ko siya hindi ako mag juan flavier kase love and last ko na siya nun... gagawa na kame nang baby.. if lust lang lets do it eka nga ni senator! ma i-feel mo yun sa unang baon ibang ang feeling kapag nasa loob ka na nang kanyang pag ibig, nararamdaman mo iyon.. iba ang hugot parang sumama ang kaluluwa... kung lust naman parang ohhh syete! parang walang specia... masarap lang lol,,, tapos naiisip mo na huli na ito wala nang next hehe.
oppps i did it again... baka mamiligro na naman ako..
malalim ata pinaghugutan mo nyan ah...mukang wagas magmahal naks!
nice answer.. thanks TM :)
Post by: fayt on April 03, 2015, 10:12:44 PM
kung love ang laman nyan, then then dun na pumapasok yun ibang ihip ng hangin na pumapasok sa katawan....
time can only change the swing of destiny.......
Post by: jamesbond on April 04, 2015, 08:53:24 AM
Love is when you can tell him anything under the sun, you can talk things out, sort your problems together... and in bed, you both tend to kiss each other on the lips for as long as you can hold it and after which your man will say "i love you" to you and that for me is a genuine gesture of profound emotions all rolled into one... And If you're looking to catch someone as a prize or to get someone to go to bed with you, you're treating the person like a thing, and you're probably experiencing lust.
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on April 04, 2015, 11:38:22 AM
Post by: lovemarie on April 04, 2015, 02:47:39 PM
depende sa intention mo at laman ng utak mo nun moment na makita mo yun tsiks, kung lust ang laman nyan edi lust ang bagsak nun....
kung love ang laman nyan, then then dun na pumapasok yun ibang ihip ng hangin na pumapasok sa katawan....
time can only change the swing of destiny.......
eh sir nangyari na ba sayo yung lust lang at first then na develop into love? do you think it is possible?
How will you know if its love or lust
Love is when you can tell him anything under the sun, you can talk things out, sort your problems together... and in bed, you both tend to kiss each other on the lips for as long as you can hold it and after which your man will say "i love you" to you and that for me is a genuine gesture of profound emotions all rolled into one... And If you're looking to catch someone as a prize or to get someone to go to bed with you, you're treating the person like a thing, and you're probably experiencing lust.
very well said sir james...i can sense that a kiss for your is something given only to a person you love...that's sweet.
hmmmm ??? how can you really tell. . . basically if there is love there is also lust they go both ways naman diba. . . but for me its how you treat your partner. . you dont treat your man/lady the same way you treat your one night stand right?
yes i totally agree with you...there should be a perfect balance of both...s3xual attraction is great to keep the chemistry alive, it’s good in keeping a relationship happy and blissful...
Post by: jamesbond on April 06, 2015, 06:20:19 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 09, 2015, 05:20:17 PM
magaan lang hehehe....pili na lang kayo ano pinakamasakit kung mangyari sainyo at paki paliwanag
kung bakit....maraming salamat!
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:)) :)) :)) >:D >:D >:D :peace: :peace: :peace:
Post by: Troll Montero on April 09, 2015, 07:53:34 PM
Sapagkat kayo ay nasa dulo na ngunit biglang naputol pa...
Kumbaga sa relasyon, andun na kayo eh, kaso biglang natapos pa.. maniniwala na sana kayo sa forever pero wala pala talagang forever..
Post by: jamesbond on April 09, 2015, 08:06:16 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 09, 2015, 08:13:58 PM
Yung nabali ang sanga...
Sapagkat kayo ay nasa dulo na ngunit biglang naputol pa...
Kumbaga sa relasyon, andun na kayo eh, kaso biglang natapos pa.. maniniwala na sana kayo sa forever pero wala pala talagang forever..
hmmm....parang i can sense relate na relate ka my friend troll ah...
pinabilib mo ako sa binigay mong interepretation... galing!
^ +like muna sa iyo brader.. enjoy ako sa sagot mo na yan... mahirap din yung huli, "humanap ng iba"... 'coz i firmly believe that God created us all unique... mahirap humanap ng iba, di maiwasan i-compare o hanapin ang kataingan ng isang taong minamahal mo sa iba... madaling humanap ng iba pero mahirap pakibagayan ulit... pero tama ang unang sagot ni brader Troll, "nabali ang sanga"... it's as if you were longing and wishing for a relationship to last forever and then all of a sudden it came to a halt... depressing... +like sa iyo TS... light question but with a deeper meaning into it...
nice answer sir james...loyalty is one of your best qualities talaga
Post by: pice_2014 on April 09, 2015, 09:46:31 PM
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on April 10, 2015, 09:24:56 AM
ang mas masakit pa alang sumalo sayo :suka3: nagpahulog ka nga knowing na sasalohin ka pero end result iba pala gustong salohin :uwa:
Post by: lovemarie on April 10, 2015, 10:37:14 PM
"nahulog sa puno" :think:
ang mas masakit pa alang sumalo sayo :suka3: nagpahulog ka nga knowing na sasalohin ka pero end result iba pala gustong salohin :uwa:
korek! chaket kaya yung pinaasa ka lang huhuhu... :uwa: :uwa:
Post by: naruto789544 on April 10, 2015, 11:58:50 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 11, 2015, 09:40:11 AM
for me it is "humanap ng iba" why??? it is the greatest pain... imagine, nabali na nga ang sanga, then nahulog ka pa... and to top it all ipinapalit ka pa sa iba... to the max na talaga ang sakit na naramdaman mo...
adding salt to the injury pa ano sir?saklap nga hayss!
salamat sir naruto sa pagdaan
Post by: lovemarie on April 25, 2015, 11:04:18 PM
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Alam naman siguro nating lahat ang walang kamatayang kasabihan na “Past is past!” pero kadalasan yung mga ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend natin ay bigla nalang dadating ulit sa buhay natin na parang walang nangyari at papapel na naman. Yung tipong unti-unti ka ng nakakamove-on or nasa 99.9% ka na ng moving on stage eh magiging back to zero at ikaw naman ‘tong sushunga shunga, maghehesterical ka agad at sasabihin mo “Huh! Binabalikan nya ako. Is it real? Is it real?” not knowing kung ano nga ba talaga ang rason nya. Anu-ano nga ba ang mga rason bakit ka binabalikan ng Ex mo?
Post by: naruto789544 on April 25, 2015, 11:22:24 PM
Post by: sugarlove on April 25, 2015, 11:25:47 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 25, 2015, 11:53:01 PM
they say that love is sweeter the second time around... i think the better word would be love is wiser the second time around... when a past relationship decided to reconcile and go back to each other arms, it is because the other party realized that you are who they need to be with... they may be many reasons for that, but it is best to assume that they see something in you that made them realize that...
well said sir naruto...reading your reply will make one take second chances with so much positivity...thank you po...i appreciate your wisdom in my threads.
Di ko din alam teh. Baka bored lang sila. Tulad mo,shungashung din ako pag ganyan... May naexperience nga ako..nakipagbalikan ako.tapos parang di nmn gf ang trato sau. Kundi ako magtxt,di sya magttxt. Deadma. Naalala lng ako pag horny sya. Buti nauntog na ko. Lol! So tingin ko, bored sila walang makitang bago kya paparamdam na lang kesa mabakante :brucelee1:
hayyss...reality bites noh? well ganun nga talaga siguro one must know how to see beyond what is visible para maiwasan maloko hahaha...pero minsan nakakabulag talaga pag ibig...lesson learned na lang hehe...thanks for taking time sugarlove
Post by: aj_2141987 on April 26, 2015, 12:19:02 AM
Post by: jamesbond on April 26, 2015, 02:25:36 AM
hinahanap nya siguro ang dati nyang nakita o nararamdaman syo na wala dun sa kanyang present o pinagpalitan syo....
pwede din na mas okay ka i-handle sa isang relasyon at di mahirap kausap.. meaning mas mabait ka...
baka mas mainit ka sa kama kumpara sa pinagpalitan syo nuon hahaha...
& lastly, he realizes his own mistake before of letting you go or dumping you... maybe it's cliche to say "the ONE that got away..."
but at the end of the day, it's still up for you to decide if you're going to accept him again knowing he has not done anything wrong against you before except to protect and love you... over protective? maybe... but that is how what love is.... hindi naman napapagod ang puso kundi ang isipan lang....nice topic mam labs... +like po sa iyo....
Post by: lovemarie on April 26, 2015, 07:31:48 AM
Minsan kasi yun din ung time na napagsisihan na nila ung kasalanan nila and sumusubok uki if jaya pang ibalik ung nasira nila... Most of the time its irreparable pero depende rin sa maturity at pride ng taong nasaktan if kaya nagpatawad at pagbigyan ng second chance or if wala na tlgang chance kasi may iba na syang bago!
tama ka may mga bagay na di na pwede ibalik kapag nasira na...nandun pa rin yung tanong na "is it worth it?"... forgiving is easier than forgetting...thanks aj for droppin'.
reasons kung bakit ka binabalikan ng Ex mo....
hinahanap nya siguro ang dati nyang nakita o nararamdaman syo na wala dun sa kanyang present o pinagpalitan syo....
pwede din na mas okay ka i-handle sa isang relasyon at di mahirap kausap.. meaning mas mabait ka...
baka mas mainit ka sa kama kumpara sa pinagpalitan syo nuon hahaha...
& lastly, he realizes his own mistake before of letting you go or dumping you... maybe it's cliche to say "the ONE that got away..."
but at the end of the day, it's still up for you to decide if you're going to accept him again knowing he has not done anything wrong against you before except to protect and love you... over protective? maybe... but that is how what love is.... hindi naman napapagod ang puso kundi ang isipan lang....nice topic mam labs... +like po sa iyo....
the last part of your reply parang may basis ah...sino kaya yung over protective lang ang naging kasalanan? hehehe....
thank you sir james sa walang sawang pagsagot sa mga katanungan ko..
Post by: magbubukid on April 26, 2015, 07:10:26 PM
Sometimes in a relationship, our mind takes over and makes us we do stupid things like letting go. You try to rationalize and justify your decision and even try to have a relationship with someone else. But it's different...something is missing...then the heart takes command and BOOM, you finally realized that letting go of the one you love was a big boo-boo. Is it too late? maybe...maybe not, nobody really knows...but the important thing is you finally realized that you love her...and it's either her or no one else.
Post by: lovemarie on April 26, 2015, 07:36:56 PM
I can only think of one reason...LOVE.
Sometimes in a relationship, our mind takes over and makes us we do stupid things like letting go. You try to rationalize and justify your decision and even try to have a relationship with someone else. But it's different...something is missing...then the heart takes command and BOOM, you finally realized that letting go of the one you love was a big boo-boo. Is it too late? maybe...maybe not, nobody really knows...but the important thing is you finally realized that you love her...and it's either her or no one else.
naks! lalim ng hugot mo magbu ah hehehe...on a serious note, saying "it's either her or no one else" only goes to show that the love felt was true....sabi nga sa Letters to Juliet movie..."if what you felt then was love - true love - then it's never too late. If it was true
then it why wouldn't it be true now? You need only the courage to follow your heart..."
salamat sa pagsagot sir magbubukid ;)
Post by: magbubukid on April 26, 2015, 07:40:59 PM
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on April 30, 2015, 09:26:34 AM
siguro di pa naka move on sayo... tsaka bka anjan pa ung spark :)) :))
Post by: chazer on April 30, 2015, 10:34:22 AM
when someone from your past happens to be present in your life again, maybe he/she means to be with you again. what's important is how you reciprocate what his/her intentions now to you. it's either platonic or romantic. only you can tell what you want to happen to both of you...
Post by: lovemarie on April 30, 2015, 11:07:54 AM
reasons why binabalikan ka ng ex mo ??? ???
siguro di pa naka move on sayo... tsaka bka anjan pa ung spark :)) :))
tama ka sadyang makapangyarihan yang "spark" na yan hehe...
each one of us is special in our own ways. compatibility was never a factor in each relationships. the word is compromise, and, ultimately, sacrifice. God designed each one of us in unique ways. what can be OK with someone definitely isn't OK with another one.
when someone from your past happens to be present in your life again, maybe he/she means to be with you again. what's important is how you reciprocate what his/her intentions now to you. it's either platonic or romantic. only you can tell what you want to happen to both of you...
hmmm...destiny...fate....it is still our choice in the end...thanks @chazer
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on April 30, 2015, 11:28:17 AM
tama ka sadyang makapangyarihan yang "spark" na yan hehe...
or pede rin ginayuma mo ulit kaya bumalik sayo :)) :)) :))
Post by: lovemarie on April 30, 2015, 11:35:13 AM
or pede rin ginayuma mo ulit kaya bumalik sayo :)) :)) :))
hindi gayuma tawag dun!
yan ang nagmamagandang "Charm" nyahahaha! :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on April 30, 2015, 11:48:13 AM
hindi gayuma tawag dun!
yan ang nagmamagandang "Charm" nyahahaha! :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:
makamandag na "charm" ba maam @lovemarie :)) :)) lagot tayo jan :suka3: :suka3:
Post by: magbubukid on April 30, 2015, 01:47:27 PM
hindi gayuma tawag dun!
yan ang nagmamagandang "Charm" nyahahaha! :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:
Gayuma, Spark, Charm, Agimat, whatever, basta matindi ang epek nun. :D
Post by: jamesbond on April 30, 2015, 07:13:04 PM
Post by: lovemarie on April 30, 2015, 07:55:50 PM
Post by: lovemarie on May 04, 2015, 09:15:17 AM
Do Couples Always Have To Like The Same Things?
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Having things in common is often seen as a prerequisite to a relationship. But is having common ground really that important?
Post by: chazer on May 04, 2015, 11:03:27 AM
compromise, rather, promotes equal give and take to both parties involved. it forms respect and enduring love between each one of them. but, also, a lot of patience is involved at the start. but eventually, everything comes out naturally between the two.
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on May 04, 2015, 07:19:35 PM
Post by: jamesbond on May 04, 2015, 07:46:19 PM
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for me it's a NO... couples should not always like the same things, it's not a pre-requisite for me before a relationship.. it is the wonder and beauty of discovering things between the two of you... and this is about acceptance...
Post by: lovemarie on May 04, 2015, 08:59:05 PM
Post by: naruto789544 on May 05, 2015, 11:50:17 PM
Post by: lovemarie on May 06, 2015, 10:36:49 AM
if the question is for starting a new relationship, then it is an advantage that two persons likes the same things since they can easily relate with each other... however, in the course of the relationship, it is always better that you and your partner have something unique with each other so that your relationship will grow with knowing each one better beyond what you started with...
i totally agree with you sir, being too alike could be boring in the long run yet it is important too that you share some interests. for self growth it is still best to discover and learn new things in your partner.
very nicely said...thanks!
Post by: jamesbond on May 06, 2015, 09:30:18 PM
Post by: lovemarie on May 07, 2015, 06:25:23 PM
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Bakit pag kiniliti mo sarili mo, hindi nakakatawa. Pero kapag iba ang kumiliti sayo, natatawa ka. Talaga bang kailangan ng iba para sumaya?
Post by: jamesbond on May 07, 2015, 06:44:49 PM
Tanong uli mga Ka PT....
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Bakit pag kiniliti mo sarili mo, hindi nakakatawa. Pero kapag iba ang kumiliti sayo, natatawa ka. Talaga bang kailangan ng iba para sumaya?
hmmm... i'm not going to dwell on the physical aspect of tickling oneself but more on the feelings one gets from another person... As they say, "No man is an island..." and i agree... it's a different feeling when you are feeling in love, the giggle it brings and the expectations are so high that even a simple message brings joy and happiness to a person... does having someone for a crush brings joy? it better be, because that is one fine example of a tickle that we may not be aware of... lalo pa kung lumapit o kinausap ka pa ng crush mo mas doble ang kiliti o ligaya ang hatid nun... "kiliti" for me as referred to above is associated with likeness or simple crush to someone, it's got to be present... kung iba ang kikiliti syo ng wala ka naman nararamdaman or shall we say a tickle from an ordinary friend eh iba yan, tatawa ka lang dyan cguro but a tickle from your crush or a love one is different, maiku-kwento mo sa close friends mo or baka matutulog ka ng may ngiti sa iyong paghiga because naiiba yun, may feelings kang nararamdaman na gustung gusto mo and you were also hoping that you wanted also be remembered by that person... it's simply putting it on the saying, "the magic starts here...."
Post by: naruto789544 on May 08, 2015, 02:06:38 AM
Post by: lovemarie on May 09, 2015, 07:42:54 PM
hmmm... i'm not going to dwell on the physical aspect of tickling oneself but more on the feelings one gets from another person... As they say, "No man is an island..." and i agree... it's a different feeling when you are feeling in love, the giggle it brings and the expectations are so high that even a simple message brings joy and happiness to a person... does having someone for a crush brings joy? it better be, because that is one fine example of a tickle that we may not be aware of... lalo pa kung lumapit o kinausap ka pa ng crush mo mas doble ang kiliti o ligaya ang hatid nun... "kiliti" for me as referred to above is associated with likeness or simple crush to someone, it's got to be present... kung iba ang kikiliti syo ng wala ka naman nararamdaman or shall we say a tickle from an ordinary friend eh iba yan, tatawa ka lang dyan cguro but a tickle from your crush or a love one is different, maiku-kwento mo sa close friends mo or baka matutulog ka ng may ngiti sa iyong paghiga because naiiba yun, may feelings kang nararamdaman na gustung gusto mo and you were also hoping that you wanted also be remembered by that person... it's simply putting it on the saying, "the magic starts here...."
yes it is the magic of of being love by someone
in a more general perspective, there are some things better given by others.... like for example, praises, acclaims etc.... this are better sounding when it is from others rather from yourself... in another case, love is also more profound and meaningful when it is being given rather than you loving yourself alone.... i always say that "love is meant to be shared..." and lastly, we as humans tend to be happier with the company of others particularly when you are with your loved ones...
love is just a word until there is that someone who will give it definition by sharing and let you feel it too...
thanks to both of you for taking time..very well said.
Post by: Troll Montero on May 10, 2015, 04:42:55 PM
hindi mo kase nahuhuli ang sarili mong kiliti kaya ganun, pero once na mahuli mo ang kiliti mo tiyak na kikislot ka din at makakaramdam nang kiliti..
sabi ng kanta... "walang sino man ang nabubuhay para sa sarili lamang"... kailangan mo nang ibang tao para maging masaya..
Post by: lovemarie on May 10, 2015, 10:09:46 PM
well bago mo kilitiin ang self mo subukan mo munang mag joke sa self mo, mga nak nak joke ba kung matawa ka eh di wow, shabu pa beh..
hindi mo kase nahuhuli ang sarili mong kiliti kaya ganun, pero once na mahuli mo ang kiliti mo tiyak na kikislot ka din at makakaramdam nang kiliti..
sabi ng kanta... "walang sino man ang nabubuhay para sa sarili lamang"... kailangan mo nang ibang tao para maging masaya..
hahaha ayos napakislot ako sa sagot mo troll ah...
seriously, tama ka..walang sinuman ang nabubuhay para sa sarili lamang..
nice one TM...thanks!
Post by: lovemarie on May 17, 2015, 11:01:24 AM
What's Your Stand On "Cool Off" Moments In Relationships?
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The term "cool off" usually refers to a temporary breakup in a relationship. It's agreed upon by the couple as a time for them to take a break and just think if they want to continue with the relationship or not. There are also times when they agree to get back together after a few days or weeks or even months. But there are also a few times when it becomes a prelude. The decision rests entirely on what the couple talked about before the cool off period.
Cool Off Moments are complicated...i would like to know what you guys think about it.
Post by: jamesbond on May 17, 2015, 07:20:44 PM
Post by: lovemarie on May 18, 2015, 08:56:27 AM
:-\ hmmm... cool off period... well, i have to be consistent with what i have already imparted/replied to other threads like this in our forum before.. i firmly believed that "cool off" period does not exist in my vocabulary.. it's a no brainer that when you come to this point there's no way we can tell if she's not entertaining someone else or vice-versa.. i feel that it's only a lame excuse to prolong the agony of parting of ways between two couple.. and i also believe that it's only fair on both parties to call it quits rather than commit to this kind of situation... when i love someone, i give it all, when problems arises i try my best to patch things up, kaya for me it's not fair na ilagay ako sa cool off period, sabihin mo na kung ayaw mo so that my love will not be wasted...
wasted time and effort that's "cool off period" for you
thanks for taking time sir james :)
Post by: lovemarie on May 30, 2015, 09:53:05 PM
The question of whether you should be friends with your ex or not has haunted relationships and people for as long as we can remember. It's a little tricky, especially when one of you is in a new relationship and you still want to leave a friendly space for the person who's used to know you inside and out.
Should You Be Friends With Your Ex?
Post by: jamesbond on May 31, 2015, 10:25:05 AM
Post by: naruto789544 on May 31, 2015, 11:01:52 PM
Post by: magbubukid on June 02, 2015, 01:23:09 PM
Post by: chazer on June 02, 2015, 04:41:04 PM
Post by: lovemarie on June 02, 2015, 09:18:44 PM
salamat po sirs @jamesbond , @naruto789544 , @magbubukid , and @chazer sa pagsagot sa aking katanungan... sa uulitin!
Post by: jamesbond on June 03, 2015, 04:57:03 AM
a study says, 60% of Exes lose contact after breakup...after realizing you have both grown up a lot, moved on a lot, learned to give mutual respect and yes, laughing together again then you finally made it to the 40%
salamat po sirs @jamesbond , @naruto789544 , @magbubukid , and @chazer sa pagsagot sa aking katanungan... sa uulitin!
wow... 60% is too high... if only their relationship ended on a happy note eh sana hindi ganun kataas ano... well, talagang ganun ata kapag "ending" laging malungkot, one tends to forget everything in their failed relationship.... thanks din po mam labs and catch your +like...
Post by: lovemarie on June 04, 2015, 03:33:45 PM
Ano Ang Gagawin Mo Sa Taong Inagaw Sa'yo Ang Mahal mo?
Post by: jamesbond on June 04, 2015, 06:48:23 PM
Post by: lovemarie on June 04, 2015, 07:19:27 PM
:-\ at first instance, of course magagalit ako sa taong umagaw sa mahal ko... natural naman yan talaga... honestly, i will stop for a while and contemplate of what really happened, bakit sumama si girl sa kanya... there must be something wrong with me and hindi na dapat pahabain pa ang istorya... i'll set them both free without bitterness or harsh words... i'll wish them luck and happiness... then find another girl and this time work harder on the next relationship, baon ang mga aral na natutunan sa dating relasyon... never again na dapat yun maulit... make my new girl savor the best of me...
naks ambait naman ni sir james...i let go lang at hindi magtatanim ng galit....
salamat sa pagsagot :)
Post by: naruto789544 on June 11, 2015, 02:52:00 AM
Post by: lovemarie on July 01, 2015, 09:48:05 AM
Here's my next Love Question guys....
In Love, What Would You Do If Your Heart Tells You It's Right But Your Mind Says The Opposite?
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Post by: magbubukid on July 01, 2015, 04:22:12 PM
Post by: lovemarie on July 01, 2015, 04:49:57 PM
thanks for taking time!
Post by: magbubukid on July 01, 2015, 05:06:43 PM
Post by: jamesbond on July 01, 2015, 06:08:54 PM
wow... malupit itong tanong mo mam labs... not easily answerable by this or that... it's got to be on a case to case basis or it depends on a given situation... it's not proper that we just follow our heart and it's not also proper that we follow our mind either... love should not always be guided neither by your heart or your mind, there's got to be balance between the two... mastering both requires ultimate focus and decision... like for example, binigyan ka ng chance na makilala ang isang girl, type mo, pero marami palang hidden attachments na makikita ka sa kanya, so ano, tuloy ba ang panliligaw sa kanya o hindi? another example is yung alam mo ng fall na si girl syo then ikaw nalang ang hinihintay sa iyong decision para maging kayo na pero atubili kang pumasok ulit sa isang relasyon after a break-up, fresh wounds ika nga, so ano, magsasabi ka na ba na love mo na sya at handa ka na bang maging kayo o saka na muna... it takes time to make a decision whether to just follow your heart or your mind... balance is the key baka sunod ka lang ng sunod sa dikta ng puso mo eh kalaunan pagsisihan mo din kasi hindi mo muna pinag-isipan ng mabuti ang dinidikta ng iyong puso... we have a beautiful thread here that focuses on different kinds of love problems and situations, and i have to give my +like here... ciao!
Post by: lovemarie on July 01, 2015, 06:38:42 PM
In Love, What Would You Do If Your Heart Tells You It's Right But Your Mind Says The Opposite?
wow... malupit itong tanong mo mam labs... not easily answerable by this or that... it's got to be on a case to case basis or it depends on a given situation... it's not proper that we just follow our heart and it's not also proper that we follow our mind either... love should not always be guided neither by your heart or your mind, there's got to be balance between the two... mastering both requires ultimate focus and decision... like for example, binigyan ka ng chance na makilala ang isang girl, type mo, pero marami palang hidden attachments na makikita ka sa kanya, so ano, tuloy ba ang panliligaw sa kanya o hindi? another example is yung alam mo ng fall na si girl syo then ikaw nalang ang hinihintay sa iyong decision para maging kayo na pero atubili kang pumasok ulit sa isang relasyon after a break-up, fresh wounds ika nga, so ano, magsasabi ka na ba na love mo na sya at handa ka na bang maging kayo o saka na muna... it takes time to make a decision whether to just follow your heart or your mind... balance is the key baka sunod ka lang ng sunod sa dikta ng puso mo eh kalaunan pagsisihan mo din kasi hindi mo muna pinag-isipan ng mabuti ang dinidikta ng iyong puso... we have a beautiful thread here that focuses on different kinds of love problems and situations, and i have to give my +like here... ciao!
meron ako nabasa and it's true...you are focused, pensive, passionate and strong daw...you see things differently...philosopical and tries to understand things....
salamat uli sir james!
Post by: jamesbond on July 01, 2015, 06:44:10 PM
meron ako nabasa and it's true...you are focused, pensive, passionate and strong daw...you see things differently...philosopical and tries to understand things....
salamat uli sir james!
:book1: thanks mam, you're very much welcome... eh mind if i take a look at that material on where you have read that? hahahaha.... parang may kodiko ka ata jan ah... +like po dito again...
Post by: naruto789544 on July 02, 2015, 12:34:42 AM
Post by: lovemarie on July 02, 2015, 08:58:47 AM
"agree with what they say... this question is a toughie... for me the reason why the brain is above the heart is because it is able to think in logical ways rather than the heart which deals more in emotions... the problem here is that when it comes to love, it is the heart which normally prevails... ever heard the saying that love is blind? that is a perfect example...
LOVE is BLIND . . . hmmmm... i think and believe that love is seeing all the flaws yet accepting them... love recognizes all the fears and insecurities and knowing your role is to comfort . . . aw! i think i am using more of my heart in replying to your comment hehehe...
many thanks as always!
Post by: lovemarie on July 13, 2015, 06:41:46 PM
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Kanino ka mas bilib... Sa maganda/guwapo na nagmahal ng pangit o sa pangit na nakakuha ng maganda/guwapo?
Post by: jamesbond on July 13, 2015, 07:23:33 PM
Post by: lovemarie on July 13, 2015, 07:34:29 PM
(seriously...napa-jingle ako dito ah...) :-\ well, i think it's just the same, isang pangit at isang gwapo/maganda pa din yan... they say love can not be measured and can not be dictated upon... kung dun tumig**s- este tumibok ang puso ng ka-partner eh ano magagawa natin... but the thing there is that love is not blind at all, iba lang ang ginamit na sa pangsukat sa pagmahahal ng isang tao.. heart maybe? hmmm... ako naman ay hindi ka-gwapuhan pero ang gf ko naman ay saksakan ng ganda... sometimes women just wanted to be cared for, remembered, and treasured like a rare diamond... gwapo ka nga pero iniiwanan mo naman sya, maganda ka nga pero pinaglalaruan mo naman sya, gwapo ka nga pero nagmamalaki ka naman, at ma-beauty ka nga pero ang ugali mo naman ay hindi maganda.. so ano mangyayari syo... just be true to oneself and others will notice you no matter how you look... kung bilib ba ako either way? hmmm... i'm not judgmental in this case, to each his/her own... i'm not in anyone's position to judge them kasi i don't want them also to judge me... may karma yan... kaya maging maligaya na lang tayo sa kung anung merong karelasyon ang ating mga kaibigan or sa ating mga nakikitang couples... +like here...
ibig ba sabihin nyan mas bilib ka sa pangit na napa-ibig ang isang maganda o guwapo?
Post by: jamesbond on July 13, 2015, 07:58:19 PM
ibig ba sabihin nyan mas bilib ka sa pangit na napa-ibig ang isang maganda o guwapo?
:-\ it's not really 'bilib' eh... when we say 'bilib', there is this notion that we have na magaling or ok kumuha ng loob ng magaganda yan ah or vice versa, what i admire most is the good-hearted person that one has... aba eh kung pogi ang guy tapos pangit si babae, so ano meron ang babeng yun? mabait or maganda siguro ang puso nun...
Post by: lovemarie on July 13, 2015, 08:20:31 PM
Post by: Prime™ on July 17, 2015, 03:30:41 AM
To answer, mas bilib ako kay pangit siguro, lakas ng fighting spirit eh. Minsan nakakasuya and wtf ka nalang pag may nasalubong ka, minsan din nakakabilib, mapapaisip ka na swerte ni badong ah.
Yung maganda or pogi na nakakuha ng pangit, okay lang din if talagang pinili nila yung tao kasi talagang gusto nila.
Out of all their available choices, ito pinili nila cause they saw something special.
Meron din kasing dahil lack of choice lang kaya doon siya bumagsak, halimbawa walang naglakas ng loob manligaw dun sa maganda kaya kung kanino nalang napunta, o kaya torpe si pogi kaya laging sigurista ang choices niya dahil duwag mag risk, yung ganun hindi commendable yun in my opinion.
Post by: lovemarie on July 17, 2015, 05:15:39 PM
What's attractive for one person may not be the kind of conventional beauty na popular sa iba and vice versa. It's subjective and relative so no offense.
To answer, mas bilib ako kay pangit siguro, lakas ng fighting spirit eh. Minsan nakakasuya and wtf ka nalang pag may nasalubong ka, minsan din nakakabilib, mapapaisip ka na swerte ni badong ah.
Yung maganda or pogi na nakakuha ng pangit, okay lang din if talagang pinili nila yung tao kasi talagang gusto nila.
Out of all their available choices, ito pinili nila cause they saw something special.
Meron din kasing dahil lack of choice lang kaya doon siya bumagsak, halimbawa walang naglakas ng loob manligaw dun sa maganda kaya kung kanino nalang napunta, o kaya torpe si pogi kaya laging sigurista ang choices niya dahil duwag mag risk, yung ganun hindi commendable yun in my opinion.
very well said sir prime...mas nakakabilib talaga yung pangit na nakakuha ng partner na good looking ... there must be something in him or her para mahalin inspite of the physical appearance.
thanks much for taking time po...
Post by: lovemarie on July 20, 2015, 11:28:49 AM
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Ano kaya mong gawin para sa pag ibig ... Ang mang iwan dahil may mahal ka ng iba O yung handang magpa iwan dahil may mahal ng iba ang iyong mahal? Ipaliwanag kung bakit.
Post by: magbubukid on July 20, 2015, 11:53:55 AM
Post by: lovemarie on July 20, 2015, 03:12:53 PM
Simple lang, makikipaghiwalay ako sa gf ko kung meron na akong ibang mahal. Kung siya naman ang meron ng ibang mahal, of course papayag ako na iwanan niya ako. Bakit ko siya pipigilan kung sa iba siya masaya.
salamat sa pagsagot . . . follow up lang po, sasabihin mo ba sa gf mo na kaya mo sya iiwan kasi may mahal ka ng iba o magbibigay ka ibang dahilan para di sya masaktan?
Post by: chazer on July 20, 2015, 04:41:58 PM
id rather be hurt than hurt anyone...
Post by: lovemarie on July 20, 2015, 04:58:06 PM
id rather be left behind kung hindi na talaga kami para sa isat isa. we cannot force ourselves to the lives of others.
id rather be hurt than hurt anyone...
matiisin ka pala sir hehehe....
pero maraming nagsasabi ng mas hirap mag move on yung nang iwan because of the guilt that comes with it
Post by: jamesbond on July 20, 2015, 05:51:33 PM
id rather be left behind kung hindi na talaga kami para sa isat isa. we cannot force ourselves to the lives of others.
id rather be hurt than hurt anyone...
:-\ segundahan ko si sir chazer . . . . mas ok nga yung ako ang iiwanan kesa ako ang mang-iwan . . . . kung ayaw na eh wag na pilitin . . . .
Post by: magbubukid on July 20, 2015, 05:59:40 PM
salamat sa pagsagot . . . follow up lang po, sasabihin mo ba sa gf mo na kaya mo sya iiwan kasi may mahal ka ng iba o magbibigay ka ibang dahilan para di sya masaktan?
Sabihin na lang ang totoong dahilan. Mas mabuti ng masaktan sa katotohanan kesa sa kasinungalingan, di ba? :brucelee1: :brucelee1: :brucelee1: :))
Post by: lovemarie on July 20, 2015, 06:07:33 PM
:-\ segundahan ko si sir chazer . . . . mas ok nga yung ako ang iiwanan kesa ako ang mang-iwan . . . . kung ayaw na eh wag na pilitin . . . .
handa ka magpaiwan dahil may mahal ng iba?
eh kung ikaw yung may mahal ng iba? you'll stay in the relationship just for you not to hurt her?
Post by: jamesbond on July 20, 2015, 06:41:57 PM
handa ka magpaiwan dahil may mahal ng iba?
eh kung ikaw yung may mahal ng iba? you'll stay in the relationship just for you not to hurt her?
??? parang na-swak ako sa Hot Seat bigla ah hahahaha . . . . to answer your question, you know me so well, i'm very much loyal to my partner and thinking about being a two-timer is not my cup of tea . . . everything can be sorted out in a nice way, talk it over, an agreement can be reached so why the fuzz. . . .
Post by: uchiha_nejer on July 21, 2015, 04:43:54 AM
basta ang rule e pag nag karoon ng doubt, pag usapan muna. applicable to sa mga may asawa na kasi nga nagkaroon na kayo ng sumpaan hehehe. sa mga mag bf-gf kasi ok lang na split agad. wala namang contract hehe
agree ako kay jamesbond. lahat ng bagay ay napag uusapan. hindi peeng feelings lang ang umiiral. minsan common sense lang okay na hehehe
Post by: lovemarie on July 21, 2015, 08:06:36 PM
Bakit ba pag kwentong pag ibig masalimuot? hehehe ;D
basta ang rule e pag nag karoon ng doubt, pag usapan muna. applicable to sa mga may asawa na kasi nga nagkaroon na kayo ng sumpaan hehehe. sa mga mag bf-gf kasi ok lang na split agad. wala namang contract hehe
agree ako kay jamesbond. lahat ng bagay ay napag uusapan. hindi peeng feelings lang ang umiiral. minsan common sense lang okay na hehehe
Bakit ba pag kwentong pag ibig masalimuot? hehehe ;D
basta ang rule e pag nag karoon ng doubt, pag usapan muna. applicable to sa mga may asawa na kasi nga nagkaroon na kayo ng sumpaan hehehe. sa mga mag bf-gf kasi ok lang na split agad. wala namang contract hehe
agree ako kay jamesbond. lahat ng bagay ay napag uusapan. hindi peeng feelings lang ang umiiral. minsan common sense lang okay na hehehe
??? parang na-swak ako sa Hot Seat bigla ah hahahaha . . . . to answer your question, you know me so well, i'm very much loyal to my partner and thinking about being a two-timer is not my cup of tea . . . everything can be sorted out in a nice way, talk it over, an agreement can be reached so why the fuzz. . . .
I get your point about communication and compromise but what I want to know if you are willing to compromise your love for another girl so that you won't hurt your current. May mahal ka ng iba pero di mo kayang mag two time so ano gagawin mo?
Post by: jamesbond on July 21, 2015, 08:40:32 PM
Post by: lovemarie on July 22, 2015, 09:50:04 AM
:-\ okay... i see.... kung meron man siguro na matitipuhan na ibang girl eh hanggang duon na lang yun, paghanga... now, there's no such thing for me as "compromise", i know my priorities and wants... nasa tamang pagdadala and control yan... magsabi na lang honestly sa partner mo na meron ka ng iba para iwas trouble na din, it hurts pero yun ang mas mabisa.. kasi, yan din ang gusto ko sabihin sa akin kung ako naman ang nasa losing end...
so kaya mo rin mang iwan dahil may mahal ka ng iba hehe...
salamat sir james for being so game in answering my question.
Post by: jamesbond on July 22, 2015, 11:12:03 PM
so kaya mo rin mang iwan dahil may mahal ka ng iba hehe...
salamat sir james for being so game in answering my question.
:-\ medyo mabigat kasi yung term na "mang iwan".... it's not me.... i may sound like a broken record or CD here pero yun ang totoo kasi eh.... uhmmm... yan, nakikita ako na nagpopost sa mga adult threads dito sa ating forum, iisipin ng iba na siguro babero ang jamesbond na yan or maybe ang jamesbond na yan ay maraming babae, things like that... but when they come to know the real me they would think otherwise, iba pala ang jamesbond.... all i can say is that, being honest to your partner should come first and foremost your main attention, hanggang paghanga and patingin tingin lang ang james... may seksi na nakikita na babae, oo.. aminado naman ako sa ganyang infraction sa relationship pero when you analyzed things, ano ba mas okay, ang tumingin sa babae o sa lalaki, babae na lang di ba? hahahaha..... lalaki naman si jamesbond so natural na sa babae na lang humanga and tumingin.... there are things in life which we can not fathom about, we can not measure the sincerity of a person as long as you are not tied to it via matrimony.... mang iwan sa babae in a relationship is not part of what i am, lalo na may third party pang involve sa equation.... seloso kasi ako by nature so i don't want to be pictured na ako pa ang nang iiwan dahil may iba ng minamahal, i'm a person whose goal in life is to love a person and be loved in return... matindi din naman ako kapag ako ang pinagpalit, kasi hindi ako marunong magalit.. si "okay" lang akong tao eh.... i prefer to keep my silence... mas nakakabingi nga daw ang tahimik kesa sa maingay.... +like po syo TS....
Post by: naruto789544 on July 23, 2015, 01:45:18 AM
Post by: Troll Montero on July 23, 2015, 05:03:20 PM
i can be in both shoes, pero syempre pipiliin ko na ang mang iwan kesa magpaiwan.. ol write! wooohhh! rock en roll to the world!..
Pero reality bites ang nasubukan ko pa lang eh yung iwanan ako, ol write! masakit op cors pero mas masakit kung ipagpipilitan mo pa ang self mo sa isang taong may mahal nang iba.rock en roll to the world! woooh! write...
Mas okey na ikaw mang iwan dahil atleast may pupuntahan ka, kapag iniwanan ka para kang iniligaw sa isang malawak na bukirin na puno nang bubog at tinik ang nilalakaran mo pabalik sa landas nang katinuan all right! woooh!!! rock and roll to the world!
Post by: lovemarie on July 27, 2015, 06:00:46 PM
:-\ medyo mabigat kasi yung term na "mang iwan".... it's not me.... i may sound like a broken record or CD here pero yun ang totoo kasi eh.... uhmmm... yan, nakikita ako na nagpopost sa mga adult threads dito sa ating forum, iisipin ng iba na siguro babero ang jamesbond na yan or maybe ang jamesbond na yan ay maraming babae, things like that... but when they come to know the real me they would think otherwise, iba pala ang jamesbond.... all i can say is that, being honest to your partner should come first and foremost your main attention, hanggang paghanga and patingin tingin lang ang james... may seksi na nakikita na babae, oo.. aminado naman ako sa ganyang infraction sa relationship pero when you analyzed things, ano ba mas okay, ang tumingin sa babae o sa lalaki, babae na lang di ba? hahahaha..... lalaki naman si jamesbond so natural na sa babae na lang humanga and tumingin.... there are things in life which we can not fathom about, we can not measure the sincerity of a person as long as you are not tied to it via matrimony.... mang iwan sa babae in a relationship is not part of what i am, lalo na may third party pang involve sa equation.... seloso kasi ako by nature so i don't want to be pictured na ako pa ang nang iiwan dahil may iba ng minamahal, i'm a person whose goal in life is to love a person and be loved in return... matindi din naman ako kapag ako ang pinagpalit, kasi hindi ako marunong magalit.. si "okay" lang akong tao eh.... i prefer to keep my silence... mas nakakabingi nga daw ang tahimik kesa sa maingay.... +like po syo TS....
ang masasabi ko lang ay talagang maginoo ka po . . . na medyo bastos hehehe (joke lang po) . . . maraming salamat muahhh!!!
i find is also better na ako ang iwanan rather than ako ang mangiwan... the difference lies in the burden of guilt and pain... pag ako ang iniwan at least you can tell the everyone that it was the decision of your partner thus lesser guilt... pag ikaw ang nangiwan, well, you will get all the flak as well as questions on why you did it... which comes to another question... bakit mo iniwan???
napakasakit maiwan tama po lalo na hindi mo alam bakit ka iniwan . . . at hindi ka man lang binigyan ng chance para makapagpaliwanag . . . pero tama po kayo sir the burden of guilt will make it for him/her harder to move i believe . . . thanks for taking time
Simulan na natin ang alamat ol raaayt! wooohhhh
i can be in both shoes, pero syempre pipiliin ko na ang mang iwan kesa magpaiwan.. ol write! wooohhh! rock en roll to the world!..
Pero reality bites ang nasubukan ko pa lang eh yung iwanan ako, ol write! masakit op cors pero mas masakit kung ipagpipilitan mo pa ang self mo sa isang taong may mahal nang iba.rock en roll to the world! woooh! write...
Mas okey na ikaw mang iwan dahil atleast may pupuntahan ka, kapag iniwanan ka para kang iniligaw sa isang malawak na bukirin na puno nang bubog at tinik ang nilalakaran mo pabalik sa landas nang katinuan all right! woooh!!! rock and roll to the world!
i know TM hehehe . . . may time i have been there . . . iniwan sa dilim hahaha . . . but i found my way back and i know you will too ;)
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on July 29, 2015, 12:16:40 AM
Post by: lovemarie on July 29, 2015, 10:18:30 AM
ano nga po ulit ung tanong maam >:D joke :peace: pra sa akin mas madali ung ikaw ang iwanan kasi pg ikaw ang nang iwan walang closure on ur part di ka mka move on.. That fast i mean
Korek! mahirap talaga kalaban ang guilt kaya di magkaroon ng closure . . .
salamat sa pagsagot sir system
Post by: jamesbond on July 29, 2015, 07:39:47 PM
Korek! mahirap talaga kalaban ang guilt kaya di magkaroon ng closure . . .
salamat sa pagsagot sir system
??? aba ganun pala yun . . . . . hmmm . . . .
Post by: lovemarie on August 17, 2015, 11:20:05 AM
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Does Love Wear Out With Time . . . ?
Post by: jamesbond on August 17, 2015, 06:29:01 PM
Post by: lovemarie on August 17, 2015, 07:38:52 PM
8) well, i don't think so.... siguro kung ang habol lang is maging kayo or making the girl an added feather to his cap, yan pwede siguro kasi wala talagang seryoso sa part ni guy... but if there is something unique in his gestures towards his girl, chances are, he maybe for real... time really breaks the barriers between lovers, so much adjustments... siguro kung ang isang party tends to change what the other has come to love in her yan pwedeng pagsimulan ng wearing off, nasa adjustment po talaga and understanding na din... nagsasawa ba syo o ikaw ang nagsasawa... yan lang naman yan eh... +like po dito mam...
kapag may pagbabago sa partner mo po nagbabago din ang pag ibig mo?
Post by: jamesbond on August 17, 2015, 08:05:50 PM
kapag may pagbabago sa partner mo po nagbabago din ang pag ibig mo?
:-\ (bilis ng follow-up question ah....) modesty aside, hindi naman nagbabago ang love ko sa kanya, in fact i'm all the more willing to understand her.... ganun sa aking palagay ang dapat eh... ewan kung mali ako pero yun ako eh... sabi nga nung kakilala ko eh, "kung ano lang ang kaya"... kinakaya ko naman sa abot ng aking kakayanan ang mag-adjust... i never ask for anything at palagay ko alam nya din yan... is it because my respect for her is there? is this just a game? come now, i never joke or play with love... masyado ang respeto ko sa babae..... +like po ulit syo mam....
Post by: lovemarie on August 18, 2015, 02:25:54 PM
:-\ (bilis ng follow-up question ah....) modesty aside, hindi naman nagbabago ang love ko sa kanya, in fact i'm all the more willing to understand her.... ganun sa aking palagay ang dapat eh... ewan kung mali ako pero yun ako eh... sabi nga nung kakilala ko eh, "kung ano lang ang kaya"... kinakaya ko naman sa abot ng aking kakayanan ang mag-adjust... i never ask for anything at palagay ko alam nya din yan... is it because my respect for her is there? is this just a game? come now, i never joke or play with love... masyado ang respeto ko sa babae..... +like po ulit syo mam....
salamat sa pag intindi at pag sagot sir james hehehe . . .
Post by: SkilledSilverTongue on August 18, 2015, 02:38:00 PM
Ang pag-ibig ay sadyang mahiwaga....Bawat isa sa atin maraming katanungan...bawat katanungan may kanya kanya tayong sagot...mali ba? Tama ba? Tanging puso lamang ang nakakaalam....[/i]
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Bakit iniiwan?
Kasi hindi na masaya, o kaya naman naka hanap na ng iba na mas masaya. May mga pagkakataon talaga sa buhay ng tao na gusto ng pag babago, something different, something new. eto quote for the above question
"Okay lang may hiwalayan, Ang mahalaga nagka tikiman"
Bastos man kung iisipin ng karamihan ngunit tama ang gustong ipa hatid sa atin. Enjoy life to the fullest, marami pang iba dyan. Buti nga nagka kilala kayo sadyang hindi lang kayo para sa isa't isa. Ive been there and done that pero kahit kakaiba pa yung iyo ay for sure babangon ka padin tulad ng mga naka move-on na.
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Post by: lovemarie on August 18, 2015, 02:48:20 PM
Bakit iniiwan?
Kasi hindi na masaya, o kaya naman naka hanap na ng iba na mas masaya. May mga pagkakataon talaga sa buhay ng tao na gusto ng pag babago, something different, something new. eto quote for the above question
"Okay lang may hiwalayan, Ang mahalaga nagka tikiman"
Bastos man kung iisipin ng karamihan ngunit tama ang gustong ipa hatid sa atin. Enjoy life to the fullest, marami pang iba dyan. Buti nga nagka kilala kayo sadyang hindi lang kayo para sa isa't isa. Ive been there and done that pero kahit kakaiba pa yung iyo ay for sure babangon ka padin tulad ng mga naka move-on na.
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good point sir! sabi nga . . . don't be sad that it's over . . . be glad because it happened.
salamat po ;)
baka gusto nyo pong sagutin din ito . . .
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Does Love Wear Out With Time . . . ?
Post by: SkilledSilverTongue on August 18, 2015, 03:03:38 PM
good point sir! sabi nga . . . don't be sad that it's over . . . be glad because it happened.
salamat po ;)
baka gusto nyo pong sagutin din ito . . .
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Love is a feeling and loving is an action. Everyone has days when they are not so lovable and it is those days when you wake up choose to love them anyway and those are the days that build on the foundation of what you have.
Love grows when nurtured. If you give the best of yourselves to each other and choose to love each other when it isn't so easy they feed off of each other. Your love will grow and not wear out. When you expect it to take care of itself it will fade.
Love is all about getting what you give and it is a cycle and a circle. They say marriage takes work. Keeping your priorities straight and communication going should be the goal. Today I am tired and have a headache and resent the errands I have to do along with work, the house, kids and dogs. Hubby has gone to work and will come home to a good meal and a relaxing evening playing with the kids and dogs until bed. I am giving what I don't have today to this relationship. Saturday is a day he would love to relax and just play and he will be tilling our flower garden and herb garden as well as caring for the kids while I am doing what I need to do. He won't like Saturday. We trade off. Sunday, we will focus on each other and the kids. We will nurture ourselves and be proud of ourselves that we put the others needs first when needed and still found a way to have our own needs met.
Work in progress!
- from yahoo answers :D :D :D
tama din naman
Post by: lovemarie on August 19, 2015, 03:47:32 PM
Post by: Troll Montero on August 20, 2015, 07:00:00 PM
yes it will! sometimes hindi naman love ang mas mahalaga sa isang relationship kung hindi ang companionship...
Post by: lovemarie on August 21, 2015, 12:14:23 PM
Does being hurt gives you the right to hurt back ?
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Post by: jamesbond on August 26, 2015, 08:55:42 PM
Post by: Prime™ on August 28, 2015, 06:14:23 PM
Maybe in some cases, pero to say outright yes.. Eh probably not.
I could justify my actions, we are our best lawyers ika nga. A thief will say napilitan lang ako dahil sa kahirapan, or a henchman goon can justify his actions by saying napagutusan lang ako.
My point is, well we are our best lawyers. We can justify whatever twisted actions we could come up with to try not to take responsibility for our actions.
If you are hit, then you hit back, and then he hits you back, and then you hit back so on and so forth.
Such a waste of effort isn't it? If someone hurts you, I think it's best to tell them what they did. If you can forgive them, it's probably better to do so and let them try to make it up to you. If you can't forgive them, then you're tormenting yourself by sticking around.
I remember this quote. The gist is " We judge people by their actions, but judge ourselves by our intentions."
Scenario 1:
"Naapakan tayo sa paa kasi bobo at clumsy yung nakaapak. Careless and rude. Malamang sinadya nya dahil mukhang psycho"
Scenario 2:
"Nakaapak tayo ng paa ng iba, kasi pagod na tayo sa trabaho, 2 days ng walang tulog, super stressed sa work and madaming bills na dapat bayaran. Hindi ko na napansin yung tao, Hindi ko naman sinasadya. Maintindihan naman ako siguro non"
We judge others by their actions, but ourselves by our intentions.
Post by: lovemarie on August 29, 2015, 12:01:36 PM
very enlightening . . . the more aware of your intentions and your experiences you become, the more you will be able to understand the connection of the two. . . by that you will realize that hurting others especially the people we love is more powerful than all your good intentions.
thank you sir @Prime™ and sir @jamesbond for taking time.
Post by: Troll Montero on September 07, 2015, 02:07:27 PM
May dalawang klase nang pagbawe, isang magandang paraan at isang masamang paraan hehehe, which is which..
ako kung sinaktan ako babawe ako sure yun... pero di ko alam if good or bad na bawe lol depende sa sitwasyon nyahahaha
Post by: lovemarie on September 07, 2015, 03:44:03 PM
kung rights ang pag uusapan of course may rights ang lahat para bumawe sa taong nakasakit sayo..
May dalawang klase nang pagbawe, isang magandang paraan at isang masamang paraan hehehe, which is which..
ako kung sinaktan ako babawe ako sure yun... pero di ko alam if good or bad na bawe lol depende sa sitwasyon nyahahaha
Yan si Troll hindi talaga papalamang hahahaha . . .
salamat sa pagsagot
Post by: lovemarie on September 14, 2015, 02:55:43 PM
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Bakit kaya may mga tao na ayaw ng COMMITMENT?
Post by: magbubukid on September 14, 2015, 07:21:28 PM
Post by: lovemarie on September 15, 2015, 09:34:06 AM
Post by: magbubukid on September 15, 2015, 11:36:41 AM
Post by: frankiko on September 15, 2015, 12:23:27 PM
Baka dahil committed na sila sa ibang bagay, ibang tao o sa kanilang sarili.
When will they decide to commit?
Probably when they're ready to choose one over the other.
-not really an expert on these topics, but somehow they stimulated my mind into thinking deeper. Thanks. Backread ako sa ibang questions pagdating sa office. Hehehe.
Post by: lovemarie on September 15, 2015, 02:10:11 PM
Post by: jamesbond on September 15, 2015, 04:56:15 PM
Post by: Troll Montero on September 15, 2015, 07:33:34 PM
Post by: lovemarie on September 16, 2015, 11:05:02 AM
Post by: lovemarie on October 05, 2015, 10:38:09 AM
Post by: magbubukid on October 05, 2015, 12:14:55 PM
Post by: lovemarie on October 05, 2015, 03:25:24 PM
Post by: magbubukid on October 05, 2015, 04:03:56 PM
love just flows . . . when it's there di basta pwede pigilan o i stop. ganun ba sir magbu?
Exactly. If you can switch it ON and OFF, then it is something else, not love.
Post by: lovemarie on October 06, 2015, 03:30:32 PM
Post by: jamesbond on October 13, 2015, 09:03:45 PM
Is There A Difference Between STILL loving someone and loving the same person AGAIN?
:-\as for me, there's no difference between the two... it's on how one reinvents himself to continue loving the same person over and over again.... ok, so the next question would be "WHY".... one reinvents himself to keep the fire burning... when love grows so do the couple in love, maturity sets in and both should do their share to overcome boredom along the way... both should learn the process of give and take... it's all about keeping the relationship healthy and more meaningful...
Post by: lovemarie on October 14, 2015, 09:54:46 AM
Do lost love make people do crazy things? What does loving someone truly means?
Post by: magbubukid on October 14, 2015, 01:15:34 PM
Post by: lovemarie on October 14, 2015, 06:33:26 PM
Post by: jamesbond on October 16, 2015, 10:43:58 PM
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Do lost love make people do crazy things?
well it depends on the situation about 'lost love'... lost love ba because of 'sayang' at hindi ako sinagot or 'lost love' because the relationship didn't last long or better yet 'lost love' because may nauna na sinagot before ako magpahayag ng 'love intentions' ko... depende din kasi sa pag handle ng situation nyan ng isang tao, kung paano dalhin ang ganyang mga bagay bagay... well crazy na maituturing if gagawa ng isang bagay na unusual like kung hindi pala inom ng alak para lang makalimot or things like that... kahit saan anggulo mo tignan iisa lang ang nakikita natin diyan at yan ang word na frustration.... in general, guys do love doing crazy stuffs when courting a girl and they also do crazy things when they get frustrated... hahahaha... natatawa ako dito ah, uhmmm... mabuti pa kaming mga guys nakikita nyo na very visible ang effect sa amin ng frustrations when it comes to love pero mainam na din ang ganito sa amin kasi mas mabilis kami maka-moved on.. pero sa part ng girls sa palagay ko (palagay ko lang ha) mas mabigat sa inyo ang ganyang sitwasyon because wala kayong visible outlet eh, you need another female friend to comfort you unlike us guys na kahit mag-isa eh madali sa amin...
What does loving someone truly means?
wow.. simply orgasm... words can not express how loving someone truly meant... i used the word 'orgasm' not because of mere expressive of a word but because it can not be measured... when you truly love someone, you should embrace his or her strengths and weaknesses, achievements and failures and most especially his or her totality as a person... all the love and shortcomings must be understood with all your heart...
Post by: lovemarie on October 16, 2015, 11:04:08 PM
Post by: naruto789544 on October 17, 2015, 12:26:45 AM
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in a situation wherein you truly love your partner, then the probability is high that you will do crazy things to get the love back... it's a way of getting attention to show your partner how much you love him/her...
what does loving someone truly means... it is giving your best to your partner... if you really love someone, you throw everything in the wind... no feeling of fear or anything... it is giving your all... though some may raise an eyebrow in giving everything, it is as they say, love is unconditional.... :)
Post by: lovemarie on October 19, 2015, 02:29:09 PM
Post by: jamesbond on November 07, 2015, 11:00:15 AM
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Post by: lovemarie on November 07, 2015, 11:43:45 AM
Post by: naruto789544 on November 22, 2015, 02:54:19 AM
Post by: lovemarie on November 24, 2015, 03:05:38 PM
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Post by: jamesbond on November 24, 2015, 07:23:34 PM
Post by: naruto789544 on November 25, 2015, 12:35:17 AM
Post by: lovemarie on November 25, 2015, 09:44:40 AM
well said . . . . thanks for taking time sir @jamesbond and sir @naruto789544
Post by: xnskwo on December 01, 2015, 09:13:04 AM
Post by: lovemarie on December 02, 2015, 05:06:24 PM
Sometimes you just have to risk and take the chance, it only come once in our lifetime, why be scared and anxious, take it and just do it, no one is holding you back but your yourself, don't hesitate just be confident that no matter what the consequence, the important thing is you did it.
i agree with you @xnskwo . . . Thank you for taking time.
Post by: lovemarie on January 24, 2016, 11:24:32 AM
Paano pag na IN LOVE KA sa pag aari ng IBA . . . Itutuloy mo pa ba o aatras ka na lang?
Post by: jamesbond on January 24, 2016, 11:49:09 AM
for me its "tuloy" or sugod pa din!
no one knows the uncertainties of what's going to happen in the future... as long as you know for a fact that you can't own him or her or until such time she or he is legally free.... in other words, alam mo kung saan ka dapat lumugar at ganoon din naman siguro sya... ang downside lang naman kasi sa ganyang set up is that sumusobra ang isa sa dapat nyang kalagyan, ika nga eh hindi makuntento at gagawa ng mga hakbang na hindi naayon base sa estado ng kapareha.... there must be control of emotions, both should hold through....
if you love someone that's not legally free, ituloy mo lang kasi mahal mo eh...
Post by: lovemarie on January 24, 2016, 12:01:37 PM
:-\ wow... as i read the question, its as if there was silence all over the room... hahahaha...
for me its "tuloy" or sugod pa din!
no one knows the uncertainties of what's going to happen in the future... as long as you know for a fact that you can't own him or her or until such time she or he is legally free.... in other words, alam mo kung saan ka dapat lumugar at ganoon din naman siguro sya... ang downside lang naman kasi sa ganyang set up is that sumusobra ang isa sa dapat nyang kalagyan, ika nga eh hindi makuntento at gagawa ng mga hakbang na hindi naayon base sa estado ng kapareha.... there must be control of emotions, both should hold through....
if you love someone that's not legally free, ituloy mo lang kasi mahal mo eh...
kahit pala harangan ng sibat ang pag ibig ni sir james eh di sya mapipigilan hehehe . . .
thank you for the answer sir james!
Post by: magbubukid on January 24, 2016, 12:22:32 PM
...pero pipigilan ko ng konti ang pagseselos ko. :))
Post by: lovemarie on January 24, 2016, 12:31:18 PM
Of course itutuloy ko kasi mahal ko :Dpag mahal go lang, konting tapak lang sa break ano hehehe . . .
...pero pipigilan ko ng konti ang pagseselos ko. :))
salamat magbu!
Post by: magbubukid on January 24, 2016, 12:36:37 PM
Post by: lovemarie on January 24, 2016, 12:39:29 PM
Sa selos lang ang may konting menor, pero sa other aspects...full speed ahead! :))
fasten your seatbelt po ah :) :) :) :) :) :)
Post by: magbubukid on January 24, 2016, 12:50:03 PM
Post by: lovemarie on January 24, 2016, 12:56:21 PM
sagot na mga guys . . . . .
Paano pag na IN LOVE KA sa pag aari ng IBA . . . Itutuloy mo pa ba o aatras ka na lang?
Post by: frankiko on January 24, 2016, 11:39:14 PM
Dito natin magagamit ang kalaliman ng wikang Filipino..
Subukan nating sumagot...
Hindi lahat ng pagmamahal ay pag-ibig.
Walang pipigil sa iyo na mahalin ang isang tao kahit pa pag-aari na ito ng iba. At sa aking paniniwala, hindi naman 'yun masama, kaya ipagpatuloy mo ang pagmamahal sa kanya. Pero kung bukod sa pagmamahal ay iniibig mo na s'ya, eh teka't mag-isip-isip muna.
Kung magiging dahilan ng pagkasira ng mga nasa paligid mo ang pag-ibig mo sa kanya, eh huwag ka nang maging makasarili, umatras ka na lamang.
:-\ ???
Post by: naruto789544 on January 25, 2016, 12:35:15 AM
sagot na mga guys . . . . .
Paano pag na IN LOVE KA sa pag aari ng IBA . . . Itutuloy mo pa ba o aatras ka na lang?
i always believe that "respect begets respect..." remember, the law of karma applies to all...
Post by: lovemarie on January 25, 2016, 10:03:05 AM
Wow! Hirap na tanong ah..
Dito natin magagamit ang kalaliman ng wikang Filipino..
Subukan nating sumagot...
Hindi lahat ng pagmamahal ay pag-ibig.
Walang pipigil sa iyo na mahalin ang isang tao kahit pa pag-aari na ito ng iba. At sa aking paniniwala, hindi naman 'yun masama, kaya ipagpatuloy mo ang pagmamahal sa kanya. Pero kung bukod sa pagmamahal ay iniibig mo na s'ya, eh teka't mag-isip-isip muna.
Kung magiging dahilan ng pagkasira ng mga nasa paligid mo ang pag-ibig mo sa kanya, eh huwag ka nang maging makasarili, umatras ka na lamang.
:-\ ???
iniisip muna ang makakabuti sa karamihan .... selfless love indeed! thanks sir @frankiko
i always believe that "respect begets respect..." remember, the law of karma applies to all...
tama sir @naruto789544 , "what goes around comes around" or "as you sow, so shall you reap"
thanks!
Post by: naruto789544 on January 26, 2016, 04:03:26 AM
Post by: lovemarie on January 26, 2016, 03:07:45 PM
hehehe... i would know mam @lovemarie... i learned it the hard way.... :)
ganun naman talaga, lessons in life and in love are usually learned the hard way . . . ang importante natuto tayo :)
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on July 17, 2016, 09:04:12 AM
sagot na mga guys . . . . .
Paano pag na IN LOVE KA sa pag aari ng IBA . . . Itutuloy mo pa ba o aatras ka na lang?
define "pag aari ng IBA" miss @lovemarie . . . mag syota lang ba o mag asawa na? kung mag asawa na? kasal ba? >:D
Post by: barumbadong_mabait44 on July 18, 2016, 01:05:52 PM
iniisip muna ang makakabuti sa karamihan .... selfless love indeed! thanks sir @frankiko
tama sir @naruto789544 , "what goes around comes around" or "as you sow, so shall you reap"
thanks!
Naranasan ko na yang magmahal na pagaari ng iba.. Mahirap na masarap pero later on parang may kulang pa din.. Saka mahirap makasira ng isang relasyon dahil lang sa mahal mo siya.. What more pa kung mahal mo may anak na..
Wala naman perpektong relasyon at lahat may kulang sa isang pagsasama... As time go by may makilala kang girl or guy dun nagkakarun ng comparison na bakit si anu ko di tulad niya etc... etc... Kaya hindi mo rin malalaman kung ang minahal mo na wala sa hubby or missis mo ay nasa kanya dahil hindi mo siya nakakasamahan sa iisang bubong araw-araw...
May kasabihan nga matatanda sa amin.. Makikilala mo lang tunay na ugali ng isang tao pag nakasamahan mo na sa siya sa iisang bubong/ bahay... Kaya kung anu meron ka now makuntento na lang and wala ka pa masasagasaan or masisira...