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Title: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Batanguenio on March 26, 2013, 07:12:47 PM
Mga Ka-PT...

ever been to LDR..?

Share your expi.. mga DO's and DONT'S
para mag work ang relationship... ??? :-\
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: jaycee on March 26, 2013, 11:18:04 PM
Haven't experienced that, pero some of my friends are in that kind of set-up.. basta ang sabi nila ang pinakaimportante eh yung TRUST and LOYALTY sa partner mo...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: monde8 on March 26, 2013, 11:31:29 PM
When I was in college, parang natadhana na ang mga gf ko eh pumupunta ng abroad. 3 out of 3 times, it didn't work dahil nakahanap ako ng iba.

Pero kung sa panahon siguro ngayon na nag mature na ako, I guess it would work. Yun nga lang siyempre hindi maalis na titikim ako ng iba pag natigang. Pero ang puso ko ay mananatili padin dun sa wasweet ko.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: lot on March 27, 2013, 02:14:23 AM
iwasan ang pagtatalo kung magkalayo.
iwasan din ang pagdududa ..
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Batanguenio on March 27, 2013, 02:40:31 AM
iwasan ang pagtatalo kung magkalayo.
iwasan din ang pagdududa ..

Sir..mahirap ata yun lalu na kung yung partner pa ang walang time sayu...walang effort at kung san san nagpupunta..tanungin mo xa pa ang galit...masakit mang isipin..pag lalaki ang gumagawa  ng ganyan..alam na natin ang dahilan..ganun din ba sa mga babae.? :(
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dimple on March 27, 2013, 03:01:36 AM
Pointers in LDR

TRUST.... yan ang number one kase magkalayo kayo kaya dapat pagpumayag ka sa set up na ganun handa mo ibigay sa partner mo na 100% yun walang halong duda or kaba

COMMUNICATION ... may mga emails, skype, tango viber at kung ano ano pa na paraan na pwedeng maging regular ang paguusap nyo pagkwekwentuhan...

OPEN MINDED...  darating ang times na syempre magkalayo kayo at magkaiba ang mundo nyo iba ang mga taong ginagalawan nyo... dapat matuto tayong umintindi na hinde lang kayo ang mundo nya na pwede din sya paminsan minsan mag goodtime or lumabas or makipagbarkada.. gumimik... makiparty basta sabihin lang na may tiwala at pagkaingatan yun

No EXPECTATION... dyan kase tayo nasasaktan pag nag expect tayo sa taong ka LDR dapat alam mo sa sarile mo na apg nag LDR kayo ay maaring di amg work out kahit nga hidne LDR minsan hinde pa rin nagkakatuluyan di ba.. para di masaktan wag amg EXPECT.

Be SUPPORTIVE... pag malayo kayo maraming pagkukulang sa isat isa so the best u can do is to give moral support kung halimbawa nalulungkot sya nahihirapan sa work or nagkakaproblema... kase lakas lang ng loon ang maibibigay mo dahil sa space nyong dalawa

GIVE TIME to each other... eto ang mahirap sa LDR lalo na iba ang time difference nyo.. lalo na umagaa t gabi ang  difference .. so make sure u two can set a time na u can chat talk or call each other lambingan mode ba kahit na gaano kayo ka busy...

AVOID KEEPING SECRETS... once u hide something yana ng parang anay na sisira ng relasyon nyo kahit ano pa yan dapat sabihin mo sa partner mo

KISS and TELL....... avoid telling other people kung ano man ang romantic moment nyo or kung ano man ang problema nyo kase minsan THIRD party dont help  makakagulo lang sila so imbes na maayos ang problema lalo ka pa gagatungan....

naku madami pang POINTERS ang dpat tandaan pero ang wag kakalimutan eh to PRAY for your relationship na amging matibay to at i guide ni LORD ang isat isa... :-*
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 27, 2013, 02:40:47 PM
Pointers in LDR

TRUST.... yan ang number one kase magkalayo kayo kaya dapat pagpumayag ka sa set up na ganun handa mo ibigay sa partner mo na 100% yun walang halong duda or kaba

COMMUNICATION ... may mga emails, skype, tango viber at kung ano ano pa na paraan na pwedeng maging regular ang paguusap nyo pagkwekwentuhan...

OPEN MINDED...  darating ang times na syempre magkalayo kayo at magkaiba ang mundo nyo iba ang mga taong ginagalawan nyo... dapat matuto tayong umintindi na hinde lang kayo ang mundo nya na pwede din sya paminsan minsan mag goodtime or lumabas or makipagbarkada.. gumimik... makiparty basta sabihin lang na may tiwala at pagkaingatan yun

No EXPECTATION... dyan kase tayo nasasaktan pag nag expect tayo sa taong ka LDR dapat alam mo sa sarile mo na apg nag LDR kayo ay maaring di amg work out kahit nga hidne LDR minsan hinde pa rin nagkakatuluyan di ba.. para di masaktan wag amg EXPECT.

Be SUPPORTIVE... pag malayo kayo maraming pagkukulang sa isat isa so the best u can do is to give moral support kung halimbawa nalulungkot sya nahihirapan sa work or nagkakaproblema... kase lakas lang ng loon ang maibibigay mo dahil sa space nyong dalawa

GIVE TIME to each other... eto ang mahirap sa LDR lalo na iba ang time difference nyo.. lalo na umagaa t gabi ang  difference .. so make sure u two can set a time na u can chat talk or call each other lambingan mode ba kahit na gaano kayo ka busy...

AVOID KEEPING SECRETS... once u hide something yana ng parang anay na sisira ng relasyon nyo kahit ano pa yan dapat sabihin mo sa partner mo

KISS and TELL....... avoid telling other people kung ano man ang romantic moment nyo or kung ano man ang problema nyo kase minsan THIRD party dont help  makakagulo lang sila so imbes na maayos ang problema lalo ka pa gagatungan....

naku madami pang POINTERS ang dpat tandaan pero ang wag kakalimutan eh to PRAY for your relationship na amging matibay to at i guide ni LORD ang isat isa... :-*
yeah all of the above are so correct sis admin (^_~) additional: "respect" lalo na sa feelings most of the time ito ang problema pagka insensitive the person involve, anyways all  u have to do alam mong i-work out if possible intact communication try to discuss or should i say open-end relation :-*
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Batanguenio on March 27, 2013, 05:31:42 PM
PROBLEMA to...panu pag nag sisimula na mawalan n communication..?

pero reasons kaya walang time...since mga sis ang sumasagot sa post na to...

pag kulang sa commu.at puro reasons ang guy,,alam nio na kung bakit...

same din ba to para sa mga babae..? ??? ???
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: serestro09 on March 27, 2013, 10:22:28 PM
minsan khit na alam mo na ung pointers pra ma work ung LDR nyo sometimes It doesn't matter how much you love someone, how deeply in twined into your very being, you breathe for this person, your arms ache for this person to just hold you because that makes everything ok again if only for a moment. Sometimes love just ain't enough...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: toshka on March 28, 2013, 12:58:28 AM
most ng nakarelasyon ko LDR talaga either aalis si guy or ako ang umalis. it just didn't work out for me. Iba pa rin magkasama, pero bilib ako sa iba na nag-work out iba din siguro talaga kung tested by time na din.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: henu on March 28, 2013, 10:36:23 AM
i've been through LDR before at ginawa ko lahat ng dapat. trust, communication, loyalty, remittance, name it.. pero pag natiempuhan ng isang saglit na lungkot at pagkamiss ang partner mo, and in my case she was not able to handle it properly, everything will really go down the drain at matatapos ang lahat. 2 years akong naka abraod nung mangyari un.

mas maganda huwag na patagalin ang LDR, the sooner na pwede na kayong magkasama ulit ng partner mo, the better.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: kikopath on March 28, 2013, 10:10:44 PM
i thin it's pointless... one or both will definitely fool around
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on March 28, 2013, 10:19:04 PM
isa itong lumang post sa PT dati noong 2007 pa yata

Throughout our experience working with long distance relationship couples, we had discovered that there are lots of thing that we must do and as well as refrain from doing in order to survive the relationship. Below are some of the advices that we have compiled over the years. Although they may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more than your effort and discipline. It is your desire to survive the relationship that makes the most impact in writing the outcome of your distance relationship. Consider some of the below do and don’t list and together with your desire, I am pretty sure you are able to conquer your distance relationship with ease and fun.

Dos

1) Establish an effective communication channel

The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but apart from the telephone services, there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.



2) Plan to meet each other

There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your LDR.



3) Build hobby that you can both share

By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.

4) Surprise your partner

Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

5) Capture and share that interesting moment

Throughout the period of your LDR, you can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.

Don’ts

1) Settle for a temporary replacement

One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.

2) Take the relationship lightly

The absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.

3) Wait and see attitude

Most of the failures in distance relationship that we observed are contributed by the wait and see attitude of the couples themselves. This was caused by the insecurity of the couple as they do not think that the LDR will work but at the same time they do not want to put a stop to the relationship. Let me tell you this, if you plan to have this kind of attitude, refrain from walking into one at the first place because both you and your partner will suffer in the relationship. In a LDR, both partners must be committed and proactive in bringing the relationship to a higher level.

4) Suspicion

There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your partner is apt to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under your nose. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your LDR.

5) Succumb to negative comment on LDR

Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that LDR do not work. The negative impression you have in LDR will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work. 
 
 
 
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: hyperboy on March 29, 2013, 01:28:41 AM
mahalaga ang pagmamahal kahit malayo...
Title: Long distance relationship
Post by: fayt on April 21, 2013, 08:37:50 PM
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Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see the person when you want to or when you most need them.. You can’t hug, you can’t hold hands, you can’t kiss. You lose the intimacy in a physical sense. But then, Your relationship becomes based on each other and nothing else.

You learn to communicate,because a long-distance relationship without communication is nothing.

You learn to trust, because you can’t always see or know everything the person is doing.

You learn to sacrifice, because someone’s always going to lose a bit of sleep from the time difference.

And lastly, you learn to appreciate.

So often, we take for granted the people and relationships in our lives because we think they’ll always be there.

But When you only have a limited amount of time with a person,

you learn to appreciate and cherish every single moment you have with them.

When you finally see that person after weeks or months of seeing them only through a computer screen,

It is one of the greatest feelings in the world.

When you’ve waited for something so long and you finally have it,

you cherish it. The key to a long-distance relationship is faith.

If both of you are not willing to give up,

If both of you are willing to stand up and still try after every time one of you or both of you fall.

“Distance isn’t for the fearful, it’s for the bold ".

It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for the little time with the one they love.

It’s for knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough.”
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on April 21, 2013, 08:57:23 PM
nasa tiwala at pag iwas lang yan sa temptasyon kung puro duda at my mga fling

wala talaga patutunguhan yan
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: fayt on April 22, 2013, 08:15:44 PM
matinding disiplina rin ang kailangan sa long distance relationship
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on April 22, 2013, 11:12:32 PM
though aaminin ko na mahirap ang long distance relationship....sa huli depende pa rin sa tao.......bakit kamo? may mga relationship kasi na nasa tabi lang ang karelasyo nagkakalokohan rin naman so wala talaga sa long o sa short distance....nasa tao talaga na kung magiging matapat lang sa relasyon, malayo man o malapit eh magtatagumpay pa rin....what ever happen to a relationship, still it is by choice
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: Cathrina on April 23, 2013, 12:09:53 AM
Depende sa bawat isa kung genuinely talaga yong purpose nila or just for loneliness.may iba naman nagkatuluyan ..basta honest at feeling secure sa relationship kahit malayo sa isat isa i think thats a good start ..
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: redsand on May 05, 2013, 03:16:58 AM
hindi ako papasok sa long distance relationship. gusto ko kase palagi kong nabibigyan ng time yung gf ko. kung wala din lang akong magiging time sa kanya wag na lang.
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: Prime™ on May 05, 2013, 04:57:41 AM
though aaminin ko na mahirap ang long distance relationship....sa huli depende pa rin sa tao.......bakit kamo? may mga relationship kasi na nasa tabi lang ang karelasyo nagkakalokohan rin naman so wala talaga sa long o sa short distance....nasa tao talaga na kung magiging matapat lang sa relasyon, malayo man o malapit eh magtatagumpay pa rin....what ever happen to a relationship, still it is by choice

Agreed.

The difference between honesty and integrity? Integrity is being honest even when no one is looking.

Nasa sa tao yan.
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: the_mode on May 10, 2013, 09:51:22 AM
been ther. done that. at hindi ko na uulitin.
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: nil699 on May 11, 2013, 06:07:23 PM
halos half a decade din ako sa isang ldr relationship.
didn't work out in the end.

Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: fayt on May 11, 2013, 06:08:28 PM
halos half a decade din ako sa isang ldr relationship.
didn't work out in the end.

wow half a decade? ang tindi nyan sir.. hats off
Title: Re: Long distance relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on May 16, 2013, 04:11:40 AM
tiwala ang pinaka importante jan sa LDR, tsaka dapat faithful ka at handa kang mag hintay para sa araw ng pagkikita nyo mag uli.... :)
Title: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: serestro09 on June 11, 2013, 05:02:02 PM
 ::) mga kaPT ano ung mga gnagwa nyo pra maging matibay ang relationship nyo ganito din ba?? share nyo rin d2  ::) :-\ :)

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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: llj on June 11, 2013, 05:28:34 PM
Constant communication at syempre dapat naglalambingan pa din kayo kahit man lang online........ ;)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on June 15, 2013, 02:01:25 PM
i agree the best way to overcome a long distance relationship is thru communication..... with trust and faithfulness.... its very easy to be tempted especially if there's no one to check on us but we have to resist this....
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: xxxchoholic Rai ♥ on June 15, 2013, 02:06:01 PM
well communication can really overcome it

at kung mahal mo talaga yun tao kahit ano pang temptasyon pa yan

magagawa mong iwasan yan
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on June 16, 2013, 08:25:02 PM
well communication can really overcome it

at kung mahal mo talaga yun tao kahit ano pang temptasyon pa yan

magagawa mong iwasan yan

yea, i agree.... theirs noone else to blame if LDR doesn't really workout except our self..... maybe there's no real love kaya hindi nagtagumpay ang LDR
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on June 16, 2013, 08:27:59 PM
parang kami lang nung ex ko nun, ang hirap ng long distance, kadate mo sa monitor, kinikiss mo siya sa cam tas holding hands ang mouse... deyyyym
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: boymalambing on June 16, 2013, 09:14:26 PM
always have communication.... chat, messages... may lambingan at may konting tampuhan para may challenge at adventure naman ang relationship kahit magkalayo....
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: yannarose on June 19, 2013, 03:42:02 AM
Simple pero mahirap
Tiwala at tiis2 lng ang kelangan ska mahala ang communication..
Pero ewan q ha para sakin kung sa tingin mo dmo kakayanin ang ldr wag kana lng pumasok sa ganyang relasyon :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Tonying Bayawak on June 19, 2013, 01:21:53 PM
Kung may happiness and trust pa naman, why would it be so hard?
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: jaycee on June 20, 2013, 09:09:36 PM
Para sa akin what matters most in a long distance relationship is Trust and Communication...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: fayt on June 20, 2013, 09:16:26 PM
integrity at faithfulness ang key sa ganitong type na relationship... faithful ang body and mind mo na sya lang ang laman nito..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Prime™ on June 20, 2013, 09:18:08 PM
integrity at faithfulness ang key sa ganitong type na relationship... faithful ang body and mind mo na sya lang ang laman nito..

Naka ng. Yan ang malupet. Mala quotation pareng Fayt ah. Hahaha!
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: firewater on June 25, 2013, 03:45:53 PM
Well constant communication is one, but you also need to have mutual understanding. Dapat tulong talaga kayo to make the relationship work. Open sa bawat isa, discuss everything like you are also bestfriends with each other. Sa part naman nating mga guys, kailangan we have some surprises once in a while. No matter how small or inexpensive it is, what important is the thought. So far so good for me..  :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on June 26, 2013, 09:32:54 PM
integrity at faithfulness ang key sa ganitong type na relationship... faithful ang body and mind mo na sya lang ang laman nito..

tama ito... tsaka dapat malaking trust talaga, dahail kapag nabutas ang trust buhay kang bata ka este sira na po ang relasyon...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: firewater on June 26, 2013, 09:52:28 PM
tama ito... tsaka dapat malaking trust talaga, dahail kapag nabutas ang trust buhay kang bata ka este sira na po ang relasyon...
Hehehe natawa ako sa reference mo sa trust bro..
Naalala ko yung linya sa kanta ng Linkin Park "I put my trust in you.. Pushed as far as I can go.."
Iba lang naiisip ko sa linyang yun.. me and my green mind  :-[
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on June 26, 2013, 09:58:21 PM
Hehehe natawa ako sa reference mo sa trust bro..
Naalala ko yung linya sa kanta ng Linkin Park "I put my trust in you.. Pushed as far as I can go.."
Iba lang naiisip ko sa linyang yun.. me and my green mind  :-[
nyahahaha same tayo bro,,, ganyan din naisip ko nung kasikatan pa ng kantang yan.. haha..

anyway, totoo naman yun, pag nasira ang trust bro, wasak na lahat... cause na ng gulo yun everyday...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: nosrym2010 on July 02, 2013, 11:06:35 PM
open communication lang ginagawa namin ng girlfriend ko eh..tapos trust tska faith din..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on July 03, 2013, 01:21:17 PM
open communication lang ginagawa namin ng girlfriend ko eh..tapos trust tska faith din..

malaking bagay talaga yung trust bro... number one na kelangan yan sa ldr
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Spurt on July 03, 2013, 05:09:22 PM
there this girl I know, na meet nya guy sa Skype, tas araw araw naka on yung screen sa skype naguusap sila, hanggang naging sila. umuwi yung guy, inilabas yung girl, ayun mi nangyari. nabuntis hehe. nagpakasal naman sila. now, araw araw, nsa US yung guy, yung friend ko na girl, nsa Manila - naka on yung skype 24hrs.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: reza on July 13, 2013, 11:22:56 AM
Dati agree ako jan sa LDR but now hindi na, iba prin kc ung mgkasama kau, ung hindi kau mgkalayo.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dere'k ™ on July 13, 2013, 01:25:38 PM
mukhang hindi nag success yung LDR rel mo tol reza ah
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Kolehiyala™ on July 13, 2013, 10:08:40 PM
this is one reason why my first relationship did not materialized haha
Title: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: scythecorleone on July 30, 2013, 03:04:30 PM
for me its not, as long as my tiwala and love n plaging nandun.
its just a number pati pero kung alam niong ngmmhalan tlga kyo
no need n mtkot. ika nga. TIWALA LANG :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on July 31, 2013, 02:43:31 PM
i agree with you...
the only problem with long distance relationship that's why they say it's hard is themselves, ourselves or anything referring to the person having a problem with it. All relationships are the same, even when a couple is near each other can be separated by a lot of reasons. I've seen people spending more than 2 years away from there family but still were extremely loyal to their spouse. If one person can do it, everybody can that's my logic. Loyalty and commitment are always the issue in a relationship not LDR, it's just an excuse for some people to cover up there assess by blaming it to that 3 words....
+karma sa iyo
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: arthas™ on July 31, 2013, 02:52:15 PM
Distance is not an issue if both of you are matured enough to handle a relationship.


Sent from my Tapsilog using Tapa, Sinangag at Itlog
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: saranghandagu on August 04, 2013, 03:19:43 AM
Touch is the language of love.

Kung may naging successful man na LDR, napakaliit na porsyento ito ng successful relationships.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: johnli on August 04, 2013, 01:07:28 PM
malaking check,... sa ldr nasusubok ang pagmamahalan,.. peru kapag pumasok sa ganung sitwasyon dapat mangingibabaw lagi ang tiwala,.. kasi pag yun ang nasira mahirap na yun itama,..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: LionHart on August 04, 2013, 02:45:55 PM
Big factor in terms of intimacy. There are things that couples need to do and share physically. It depends na rin on how long will you be separated.





-LionHart
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: -aceofbase- on August 04, 2013, 03:08:33 PM
it's hard for unmarried couples as this is a test of trust and fidelity and of course love...he/she can find someone to replace you if your relationship is on the rocks because you're only bound by your love without legalities...

for married couples...especially husbands, there is a test of fidelity as well and trust...love will always be there...unless your relationship with your wife is on the edge of the bed...in the long run you'll still be married and that will not change legally (unless annulled)...and whatever happens your wife will still be your wife...and that's the reality...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jonson on August 26, 2013, 01:31:21 AM
for me, hindi nagwo-work ang long-distance relationships.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Fade Away on August 27, 2013, 10:08:13 AM
very hard ang long distance relationships, kailangan mo ng tiyaga from both parties.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: angelmassacre on August 27, 2013, 02:32:39 PM
Sa tingin ko para ka na ring nag alaga ng tamagotchi sa isang LDR, panay ang mga wish you were here nyo.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jThen on August 28, 2013, 10:10:28 AM
Long distance relationship is hard.. it won't allow you to feel each other companion... pero un lang un if you have the love that reach every corner of the world(bilog and mundo so wala tlgang corner, ok?) sa tingin ko eh wlang magiging problema dun... :>>
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Marcus on September 04, 2013, 10:53:24 PM
Mahirap at kahit gaano kainit nanlalamig lalo nat marami temptation
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: nodfs on September 07, 2013, 05:33:13 PM
mahirap pero kung walang tukso madali lang. kailangan lang talaga ng tiwala sa isat isa at kailangan maging loyal hanggat maari
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ambsey on September 07, 2013, 05:56:28 PM
Mahirap pero kaya yan.. tiwala lang at sacrifice kaya yan..

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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jackfruit_99 on September 07, 2013, 06:08:32 PM
ano ba ang dapat? i think okay lang ang long distance..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: somebody on September 08, 2013, 03:54:57 PM
If the two of you can resist temptation and you are God Fearing the Long Distance Relationship will really work for both of you. The key in LDR is love,communication and trust..Walang mahirap kung gugustuhin.. Kudos sa mga may ka LDR
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: xkatrina on October 15, 2013, 02:03:44 AM
based on my experience, mahirap sya. lalo na't napaka-immature at bata ko pa nung nagkalayo kame ng bf ko. nandon nga yung communication, love and trust pero nandun din kase yung temptations. kaya mahirap talaga.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Tracertribe on October 17, 2013, 11:27:01 PM
Love, Trust & Faithfulness is the key factor! And siyempre pinaka major factor is yung relationship kay god. temptation will come pero kung mahal mo talaga yung partner mo di mo magagawa yun love will prevail. Cheating means you don't really love the person some has this excuses na I'm sad... Lame excuses.. I don't give a s.  t on that...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: stabber on October 18, 2013, 04:38:59 PM
hindi naman mahirap ang long distance relationship specially kung parehas ninyong nauunawaan ang bawat isa. hindi lang naman yan about trust madaming components yan... isa na jan ang sacrifice, pasensiya... kailangan din ang disiplina sa sarili... bakit? kasi laging excuse ng mga nasa LDR ay una tukso tapos six cravings... kung may disiplina kayo (babae o lalaki) kahit na gaano kalayo kayo sa isa't isa hindi ka mag cocommit ng pwede ninyong maging pag awayan...
sa akin lang naman yan kasi wala pa naman akong asawa pero kami ng gf ko ay LDR and mag 4 yrs na kami and going strong.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: manforest on October 18, 2013, 04:52:35 PM
mahirap po long distance relationship... based on my experience...
2 beses na... ung una mas me edad sa akin.. ung pangalawa mas bata sa akin... di pareho nagwork... :(
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: jamesbond on October 19, 2013, 01:03:05 AM
yeah... been there... done that.... trusting your partner is the key here.... boredom dictates the phase... so we have to focus ourselves in our goals in life...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ¿m☺ÿ on October 19, 2013, 11:15:19 PM
yep been there many times..... Patience, trust, communication, loyalty.... are the keys for both party.... kasi kapag isa lang hindi ito magtatagumpay.... i've experience a lot of them but then hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon eh nabigo ako kasi ganyan ang love story namin ng wife ko.....
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: appleblossomgirl on October 20, 2013, 10:15:31 PM
mahirap ang long distance relationship.. di mo alam kung ano ang ginagawa nya.. lagi kang nag iisip.. pag di man lang xa nakatawag o naka text sayo.. iisipin mo minsan, iniisip ka pa ba nya, o may iniisip na xang iba..

di ko rin alam ang gagawin ko sa ganyan.. kaya makikibasa na lng din ako sa payo nila.
 :D
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: cloe on October 21, 2013, 07:05:38 PM
kung temporary lang na LDR, i guess kaya ko. yung tipong na-assign lang si guy somewhere far na for a while lang. otherwise, mahirap eh.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Katorse on November 19, 2013, 10:09:38 PM
dalawa lng ang kelangan dto Trust and Pray hard.. it really works.

hubby spoiled me before he left for a job overseas, he is my all, my best friend, confidante, adviser most of all my number one fan.
D ako pinaglalaba nun baka masira daw kamay ko haha nkkhiya lng, pinaghihimay pa ako kapag my isda, hipon at alimango, kht pgka-parlorista at masahista kinana nun.. trulalu brush nya hair ko at foot massage bago matulog kaya galit skin madir nya e kc senyorita daw ako.

Pg-alis nya Nga-Nga!!! halos 3 months yata akong tulala nun at araw2x nk-abang ako baka online xa, kasamaang palad for 3 months once lng yata kmi nkpg-skype at kng tawagan ako once or twice a month lng din.
ang hirap p kpg overseas ang pakner mo humahabol lagi c tukso kht kebigan nmin tinatalo ako d nmn ako mkpgsumbong sa knya baka tumalon sa barko.
Napasok ako ng PT ung kabolahan kong PT hunk nmn sweet nung una kaya nahulog ang loob ko sa kanya katagalan. i was confused pro sa isip ko my taong ngpapakahirap para sa future na kasama ako hnd fair!!!.. so what i did was.. i just went home to mother, apparently she knew me from head to foot she asked "do you have any prayer request?" i said none that i can think of ma. she replied "everything will be alright you just have to trust." mother's instinct yata ang tawag don :D

prayers really work u bet! finally i regained my composure. hubby is coming home very soon d ko namalayan ang paglipas ng panahon nabusy aq sa pangungulit sa sb hehe at higit sa lahat nakalimutan kona n ngtampo pala ako sa knya :D :D :D

Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: sugunoy on November 19, 2013, 11:45:10 PM
had a girl friend way back then, we are from the same school. we were together for more than 3 years but then, her family decided to move to singapore. after 3months, we broke up, she ended up falling inlove with her condo neighbor..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Mark Yap T. on November 27, 2013, 06:36:50 PM
Mahirap yun, meron nmang taong kaya nilang tiisin. pero ako hindi, gusto ko talaga makapiling ang ka relationship ko. kasi d mo alam mga ginagawa nya if magkalayo kayo, pwera nalang kong nag kita na kayo in person. pero mahirap parin mag tanim ng TRUST sa isang tao.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Batanguenio on December 02, 2013, 08:33:34 PM
Base on my expirience. Hindi sya mag wowork. Specially kung hindi pa kayo married.

Trust, love, Communication at kung ano ano pa ang requirements para lang mag work ang relationship pero ang totoo after several months, 1  or more year na ang dumaan. lalo na at araw araw kayo ng uusap, skype, chat at kung ano ano pang paraan to keep in touch, mag sasawa din kayo at worst mapu frustrate, tapos darating yung time na hahanap ng ng something new at yun na ang simula ng katapusan ng LDR.

BOW....
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: somebody on December 02, 2013, 08:50:12 PM
ang mahirap sa LDR kapag may away kayo, di nyo mabilis mareresolba ang problema.. may iba iba kayong pinagkaka-abalahan, alangan naman iwanan nyo ang ginagawa nyo para lang pag-usapan ang problema...
At problema sa akin, paranoid...hahaha.. maybe because nahihirapan ako magtiwala sa lalaki ngayon.. Sorry guys..Alam ko mapaghusga lang peg ko at medyo nilalahat ko..
Bato bato sa langit ang tamaan, di umilag... ;D
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Cathrina on December 02, 2013, 09:11:16 PM
@sis some parang may pinaghuhugutan haha..yon nga ang isa sa mahirap sa ldr pero sis i had 2 ldr we last almost 2 years  yong isa nde nkapaghintay niexplain ko kung bakit ako matagalan sa pag uwe kasi may papers akong dapat itaking care nagwait ako sa green card those time pero cguro nde naninawala in which i was telling the truth..yong isa may asawa yata kasi nde na nagparamdam nung umuwe sa pinas at sayang kasi naging totoo ako sa kanila..lol ako yata ang may pinahuhugutan sis ah.. :-[..anyway it takes respect,trust and understanding pag ldr at dapat maging totoo kahit nga sabihin nila na its an internet world but pedi ka naman magpakatotoo ..kaya sis some depende yan isipin mo san ang location ni 5 kaya magready ka na hahaha..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: somebody on December 02, 2013, 09:25:45 PM
@sis some parang may pinaghuhugutan haha..yon nga ang isa sa mahirap sa ldr pero sis i had 2 ldr we last almost 2 years  yong isa nde nkapaghintay niexplain ko kung bakit ako matagalan sa pag uwe kasi may papers akong dapat itaking care nagwait ako sa green card those time pero cguro nde naninawala in which i was telling the truth..yong isa may asawa yata kasi nde na nagparamdam nung umuwe sa pinas at sayang kasi naging totoo ako sa kanila..lol ako yata ang may pinahuhugutan sis ah.. :-[..anyway it takes respect,trust and understanding pag ldr at dapat maging totoo kahit nga sabihin nila na its an internet world but pedi ka naman magpakatotoo ..kaya sis some depende yan isipin mo san ang location ni 5 kaya magready ka na hahaha..

wow 2yrs talaga sis..buti ka pa tumagal ng ganun sayo..sakin di man lang ata umabot ng dalawang buwan...Sistah malas lang nila at di sila nakapghintay sayo,,jackpot na jackpot na sana sila sayo eh.. ikaw nga ata talaga ang may pinaghuhugutan sis..hahaha

Nyay.. Sa Quezon daw sa kanila sis..wahaha.. stalker lang ang peg..Anyways Highwaist As much as possible ayoko ng LDR talaga, I'd rather stay in a place na kahit maghirap kami basta di kami magkalayo..amft..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Cathrina on December 02, 2013, 09:33:01 PM
wow 2yrs talaga sis..buti ka pa tumagal ng ganun sayo..sakin di man lang ata umabot ng dalawang buwan...Sistah malas lang nila at di sila nakapghintay sayo,,jackpot na jackpot na sana sila sayo eh.. ikaw nga ata talaga ang may pinaghuhugutan sis..hahaha

Nyay.. Sa Quezon daw sa kanila sis..wahaha.. stalker lang ang peg..Anyways Highwaist As much as possible ayoko ng LDR talaga, I'd rather stay in a place na kahit maghirap kami basta di kami magkalayo..amft..
Hahaha alam na alam ang location malapit lng pala isang oras lang ang flight nyan hahaha..wow touch ako don sa kahit maghirap basta magkasama tama nga naman sis sanay na tayo sa hirap eh atleast may nagmamahal di ba nothing new sa pagiging mahirap its a same old same old..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: cezky09 on December 02, 2013, 09:34:00 PM
Ok lang naman basta isang rule...lagi ka magtitira ng para sa sarili mo. Babae para ding lalaki kahit bantayan mo mayat maya mo i-check if magluluko magluluko. Wala icoconsider yan. Again tiwala and respect and as long alam mo nagagawa mo part mo dumating man time may hindi maganda nangyayi alam mong hindi ka nagkulang


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: somebody on December 02, 2013, 09:49:04 PM
Hahaha alam na alam ang location malapit lng pala isang oras lang ang flight nyan hahaha..wow touch ako don sa kahit maghirap basta magkasama tama nga naman sis sanay na tayo sa hirap eh atleast may nagmamahal di ba nothing new sa pagiging mahirap its a same old same old..

nyahaha kelangan alam ang location para alam ni santa san nya kukunin ang ipangreregalo sakin sis..hahaha

OT: 
out of 10 LDR relationships, I guess isa lang dun ang successful.. ayon sa aking mahiwagang baul..charot..btw Kung mahal nyo ang isat isa magkalayo man kayo sana panghawakan nila yung pga-ibig na nararamdaman nila.. feeling magaling lang..hahaha
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: magbubukid on December 03, 2013, 08:36:14 PM
nyahaha kelangan alam ang location para alam ni santa san nya kukunin ang ipangreregalo sakin sis..hahaha

OT: 
out of 10 LDR relationships, I guess isa lang dun ang successful.. ayon sa aking mahiwagang baul..charot..btw Kung mahal nyo ang isat isa magkalayo man kayo sana panghawakan nila yung pga-ibig na nararamdaman nila.. feeling magaling lang..hahaha

May survey figures pa pala.   :-X :-X :-X

OT:
I agree with your percentage kasi madaming tukso pag magkalayo ang nagmamahalan. Yung 10% umiiwas sa tukso pero yung 90% parang hinahanting pa nila yung tukso. hahaha!
 
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: iookl on December 11, 2013, 09:51:02 PM
Sobrang hirap ng LDR hehe. High maintenance! Kami ng college sweetheart ko going 7 years na (~4 years long distance). Tiyaga lang talaga at pag mahal mo talaga siya, full effort ang kailangan. Halos every month ako umuuwi sa PH para makasama lang siya...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Itachi101 on December 11, 2013, 10:55:16 PM
didn't work in my case period
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: radicalerror on January 03, 2014, 02:05:29 PM
Sa tingin ko hindi if may nonstop communication kayo sa isat isa.. andami na mediums ngaun.. skype call txt facebook email ano pang reason na ndi mag last?

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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Tonying Bayawak on January 03, 2014, 09:41:23 PM
Kung nasasatisfy naman ng partner mo ang emotional needs mo even if you're miles away, why would it be hard?
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: radicalerror on January 03, 2014, 10:38:53 PM
Ung ibang needs kasi hehehehe

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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: shinta on January 04, 2014, 12:33:31 AM
Hard. Iba pa rin yung you can touch hands and feel the warm embrace.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: magbubukid on January 04, 2014, 12:58:54 PM
Mahirap ang LDR. Dapat matibay ang foundation para mag survive ang relationship.

 :-\
 
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jamesbond on January 05, 2014, 01:31:13 PM
Whoah! Tsk tsk tsk... I have no luck when it comes to this LDR... Its hardwork really... A man like me who travels more often as a call of duty always succumbs to pressures of a relationship.. We usually have non-sense arguments, well at least for me, that we often consider total blocking of communication available. Touche'. Sometimes its so surreal to think about it, i can not even learn from it... Handling present matters at hand at a juxtaposition may not be working properly well for me... So what i do is that i view my options at hand, keep it steady, focus, deviate from nuisances and project what is needed to solve the matter.. Solving the matter may lead to the success of the relationship but usually i prefer things as they are, it should not be forced, let the cooler heads learn from it, sometimes petty arguments like this leads to ardor.. Wow! I love ardor moments when it comes...


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: mitten-15 on January 06, 2014, 12:00:50 AM
mahirap talaga long distance relationship.. kailangan ng patience & trust.. madami pa naman temptation these days..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: oral_mine on January 06, 2014, 01:04:16 AM
mahirap kung hndi ka gagawa nang paraan para mkipag communicate sa taong mahal mo.. high tech na tau ngaun.. me webcam, smart phones, tablets at qng anu2 pa.. hndi na mahirap ngaun ang pgging LDR.. smen nang GF ko.. everynight kme video chat.. 4pm d2 sa saudi, 9pm sa pinas..

eto lang un.. "kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan"
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jamesbond on January 06, 2014, 06:24:09 AM

mahirap kung hndi ka gagawa nang paraan para mkipag communicate sa taong mahal mo.. high tech na tau ngaun.. me webcam, smart phones, tablets at qng anu2 pa.. hndi na mahirap ngaun ang pgging LDR.. smen nang GF ko.. everynight kme video chat.. 4pm d2 sa saudi, 9pm sa pinas..

eto lang un.. "kung gusto may paraan, kung ayaw may dahilan"

 congrats sa iyo sir... Saudi ka brod at SG ako now, pwede na Italy sa susunod na assignment ko.. Depende sa sitwasyon yang sinasabi mo.. At depende din sa characters involved.. Kahit matino ako eh yung nasa kabila kaya eh naniniwala sa akin? So depende yan.. Good for you at nagkakamabutihan kayo ng GF mo and i wish you all the best!


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: oral_mine on January 06, 2014, 01:07:56 PM
congrats sa iyo sir... Saudi ka brod at SG ako now, pwede na Italy sa susunod na assignment ko.. Depende sa sitwasyon yang sinasabi mo.. At depende din sa characters involved.. Kahit matino ako eh yung nasa kabila kaya eh naniniwala sa akin? So depende yan.. Good for you at nagkakamabutihan kayo ng GF mo and i wish you all the best!


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tama nman.. depende sa sitwasyon.. matino nman ako.. at buti matino rin ung gf ko.. kilala na kasi ako sa bahay nila.. actually pnpnthan nang magulang ko ung magulang nya pag may okasyon.. Salamat boss.. :)
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Troll Montero on January 15, 2014, 05:29:17 PM
it will not work-out... kase andame kayang ofw na may asawa sa pinas may inaasawa sa ibang bansa, mapa babae man or lalake.. matindi pa dyan may ka ldr na sila may asawa pa, 2 in one coffee.. lalo na mga taga saudi dame kong kilalang ganyan... libangan nila ang makipag cyber six sa mga naloloko nila sa chat sa internet,shoshotain nila, tipong hiwalay daw sa asawa yun pala di pa naman, makapag cyber six lang... kaya ingat kayo sa mga manloloko, lalo na mga babae...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: princejuan on January 17, 2014, 01:25:27 AM
Long distance relationship has a lot of advantages & disadvantages. Some have work out but some has been shattered and never recovers. Well, long distance affair can do good in one way or another too. When you are in a long distance affair communication is so vital. This is one of the cord in which you can hold on and make you realized how your partner values you.It’s like saying, if there’s a will then there’s  a way.No matter how hard it is but if somebody loves you he/she will gonna find a way not to end the day without sending a single message just to tell you how much he/she miss you or how much he/she loves you. Temptation will always be there around the corner but you can be strong to resist it as long as you don’t give it a chance to get near you. I mean, the moment you let temptation find it’s way to you then your whole world & being is bound to be shattered. don’t  give time to entertain temptation. It’s very dangerous. Don’t think how your partner has been so unfair leaving you so lonely, just think that he/she is making the sacrifice to be far from you for big reason. Always think that if you’re feeling lonely right now, same way your partner out there is feeling the same. Trust? yes, it’s a very simple adjective to say ,yet it’s very hard to do.trusting your partner out there in the far corner of the world  a million miles away from you is very hard to do, it’s like putting your heart in a silver platter and offer it to somebody not minding that it’s vulnerable to be hurt. But that’s the only thing you can do in order to make the relationship go through.Prayer? yeah.making God as the center pillar in your relationship will certainly help conquer fears and doubts.Pray then that inner peace may come to you and bring solace to your soul as you keep the faith that God will always be there to help you combat temptation.Make yourself busy.Find a way to make your day a productive one. making yourself busy may ease the loneliness.And ofcourse, always remember that in a relationship you and your partner should work together to keep the fire of love burning no matter how far you’ve been through from one another.Remember, love conquers all.so there’s no reason that your love fails because of distance.i want to leave this quote “ ang relasyon ay parang ilaw ng jeep sa gabi.kailangan parehong gumagana ang dalawang ilaw kasi kung iisang ilaw lang baka akalain ng kasalubong mo single ka.” The two person bound with commitment for each other should work it out together in order to make it work.No matter how hard it is.no matter how far you are from each other True love will always find it’s way to surmount all odds.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: mindy on January 17, 2014, 02:27:51 AM
it worked for me but i´ll never encourage people to try their relationship with this one...there are sure lots of do´s and don´ts but i think it´s a case-to-case basis...isa lang masasabi ko and that is LDR requires a 100-fold of much effort than non-LDR relationships...tama naman yung mga sinasabi nila, i just would like to add that the length and depth of your relationship prior to LDR "may" also play a role in the success of a relationship and with us siguro -it was a big help that he tends to be workaholic most of the time, that leaves him not much time to even think about doing something not worth his time- the downside of it kulang na lang i-charge ako in an hourly rate minsan lol...well that was before- he can now enjoy life basta hindi na LDR
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: mindy on January 17, 2014, 02:30:44 AM
Sir..mahirap ata yun lalu na kung yung partner pa ang walang time sayu...walang effort at kung san san nagpupunta..tanungin mo xa pa ang galit...masakit mang isipin..pag lalaki ang gumagawa  ng ganyan..alam na natin ang dahilan..ganun din ba sa mga babae.? :(
i may answer that pero hindi pare-pareho ang tao maybe you can tell kung anong pagkatao nung girl...i mean do you think she´s really capable of doing that? you can tell better
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Sleepaholic on February 17, 2014, 11:21:36 PM
LDR isn't as hard as it used to be, with the technology ang daming options to keep the communication may viber, line, wechat at skype.

Unlike before na snail mail at recorded tapes.

Chances are mas tatagal ang LDR ngayon kesa noon.

And of course effort parin, and pagiging faithful because LDR it's not for the weak lalo na't maraming temptations sa tabi tabi.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on February 18, 2014, 02:36:41 PM
kahirap nito, kapag horny ka at nag crave sa dyowa nakakasakit sa ulo... yung di mo ma irelease ang pagbulwak ng pagmamahalan nyo... maski pa may durex fundaware na
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: crashtest on February 23, 2014, 10:35:38 AM

mahirap sir. communitaction will be a big factor. well, there is a 50/50 chance :)

Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: stabber on February 26, 2014, 10:31:03 AM
hmm, it doesn't matter kung LDR o NDR ang mangyayari.. Ang mahalaga ay malayo man o malapit andun ang pagtitiwala nila..
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladyvirus01 on February 27, 2014, 05:50:43 PM
miles away not an issue for me as long you love each other and expect all trials na darating sa relasyon nio but still andun si "trust" :think:
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on March 13, 2014, 04:03:54 PM
mahirap na ma sheena easton

Long long distance love affair, I can't find you anywhere
I call you on the telefone, but you're never home
I gotta get a message to you, I want to tell you what I'm going through
What in the world's comin' over you
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: llj on March 13, 2014, 11:56:19 PM
Mahirap pero kung talagang nagmamahalan kayo kaya naman......... sabi nga e........

Distance can be measured but love cannot, so love defeats distance.

 :P
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: magbubukid on March 15, 2014, 02:39:45 PM
I think distance is not the real problem, temptation is.

Kahit nasa Jupiter pa yung isa, ok lang basta marunong sila umiwas sa tukso. If they can do that, sila pa din ang magkikita sa Finals.   ;D
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on March 16, 2014, 02:43:41 PM
pinkamahirap dyan yung horny kayo pareho tapos anlayo layo nyo... yung nag cyber six kayo kahit satisfied ang isipan nyo pero ang katawan nyo hindi...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 16, 2014, 03:48:37 PM
pinkamahirap dyan yung horny kayo pareho tapos anlayo layo nyo... yung nag cyber six kayo kahit satisfied ang isipan nyo pero ang katawan nyo hindi...


 :think: :think: :think: mahirap ba mon cher?  :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on March 20, 2014, 12:11:28 PM
“Alam niyo kung ano ang problema sa LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP? . . . . . . . . . PAMASAHE!”
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: somebody on June 24, 2014, 11:59:39 AM
I think distance is not the real problem, temptation is.

Kahit nasa Jupiter pa yung isa, ok lang basta marunong sila umiwas sa tukso. If they can do that, sila pa din ang magkikita sa Finals.   ;D


ahahaha.. tama ka dyan ser magbu :) yun talaga problema ..sa survey ko yung mga lalaki  ang di umaayaw sa temptation eh..tutuka talaga :suka3:

ot:
dati sabi ko mahirap sya na sitwasyon pero ngayon ramdam kong hindi naman talaga sya mahirap kung may constant communication kayo.. parang ang lapit nga lang namin ::) ::)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: StevenSy on June 24, 2014, 10:22:30 PM
It's a big issue for me, and it's hard. :-) Tao lang tayo at natutukso din ;) hindi natin alam ano ang susunod na mang yayari :-) It's hard to trust someone...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: madokka on June 29, 2014, 11:36:14 PM
Law of Proximity. Kahit pa may tiwala ka sa partner mo, may mga lalaki pa ring talgang hahabulin yung girlfriend mo hanngang sa bumigay :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: blackstaff on August 20, 2014, 12:59:30 PM
Hard.. But not impossible. Keep the faith as they say.


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Ravendelle on August 24, 2014, 08:48:00 PM
Mahirap pero dapat TIWALA lng sa isa't isa.


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on August 25, 2014, 12:51:54 PM
Mahirap pero dapat TIWALA lng sa isa't isa.


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Mahirap ba ate Raven? lalo na kapag horny kayong dalawa ang hirap..


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: lovemarie on August 25, 2014, 12:59:05 PM
Haysss....tama ka dyan TM...it is sooo hard...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on August 25, 2014, 01:11:43 PM
Haysss....tama ka dyan TM...it is sooo hard...

lalo na saming mga lalake, it is so hard INDEED!!!
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladyvirus01 on August 25, 2014, 01:44:54 PM
Yeah its hard but as long consistent namn
Communication ninyo at lagi masaya sa bawat araw na ng uuusap LRD doesnt matter basta mahal nio isat isa bow!


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on August 25, 2014, 02:03:12 PM
Yeah its hard but as long consistent namn
Communication ninyo at lagi masaya sa bawat araw na ng uuusap LRD doesnt matter basta mahal nio isat isa bow!


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“Ang pagtalikod sa minamahal ay hindi pagtanggi kundi,
ito
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DOG STYLE!!!”
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: izzo_mack on September 16, 2014, 03:11:21 AM
Mahirap pero kung totoo kayong nagmamahalan madali lang yun. Tiwala, communication at wlang sawang pagmamahal lang.


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: jamesbond on September 16, 2014, 06:19:05 PM
yes mahirap itong LDR... magalaw ang takbo ng isip ng bawat isa....


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Title: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladyvirus01 on October 26, 2014, 03:53:48 AM
Mahirap but you have to accept the fact, ang susi lang naman dyn enjoy and treasure everytime you talk,evry second every minute iparamdam mo kong gaano mo siya kamahal para hindi hadlang ang long distance na yan... 


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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: calvinlim on November 07, 2014, 12:05:58 AM
mahirap na mahirap. it takes a lot out of both of you. worth it though if it works out.   ::)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: zencis on November 13, 2014, 04:47:05 PM
Been in this kind of situation more than twice and all I can say is that it's pretty damn hard. Even if you both love each other too much and even if you have great trust and faith for each other. Long distance and time will slowly kill everything you and your partner stand for about your relationship. One day you or your partner will just wake up and ask yourself, "why am i still in this relationship that's clearly not working out?" Well I just based this from my experience but I dunno, maybe some people could work it out easily.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on November 14, 2014, 09:26:41 AM
its really really damn hard to keep this kind of relationship. . .  trust issues is often the root of the arguement. . . you have to work twice no thrice as hard to keep that spice going  :-\
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: chinkeebabe on November 19, 2014, 07:32:59 PM
they say its easy, they say its hard... but it really depends on the people involved how committed and responsible they can be or not...  what i meant is that, sabi nila ndi daw magwowork ang long distance sa magjowa palang... but this proved me wrong.. it worked for me... but it didnt worked for me when we tied the knot... pt has been a wide witness on our story, yet, there are just mere fairytales with a different twist of ending... long distance or not, i would say, its not the issue.. its the commitment, trust, love, and responsibility you both have to stand the test of time and distance... ;)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: kinetic on November 21, 2014, 08:46:20 PM
Hard, in fact it's very hard.
Time will definitely test the relationship. Hindi dahil matagal na kayo mas madali, kabaligtaran pa nga eh.

Mag-asawa na kami ng ma-abroad ako. Pinakamatindi ang physical longing. No amount of telephone calls, love letters can substitute sa physical touch ng mga mahal mo sa buhay. One has to have faith para mapaglabanan ang tukso sa abroad.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: razorsharp on November 22, 2014, 09:51:53 AM
basically long distance relationship is a technical relationship. you get the fundamentals pero nawawala yung passion and sheer joy of just being together, smelling each other.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: lovemarie on November 22, 2014, 01:31:00 PM
Mahirap kaya maybe these tips might help

Five Quick Tips for Maintaining a Long Distance Relationship

by Social Meems 

It can be hard to be apart from the person you love. However, even if there are thousands of miles between you, you can still do things to communicate your desire and affection. Keep the following five tips in mind.

1) Make sure you set aside some time to enjoy the pleasure of discussion, rather than only talking to each other when you have something significant to talk about. This will help you to feel closer.

2) Investigate Skype or another video chat program that will allow you to look at each other while you are talking. In some cases, this can almost feel like a date, and it is always wonderful to see your partner smile and laugh.

3) Ensure that you are on the same page when it comes to monogamy. Some couples who live apart will accept that they will continue to see other people (even if only casually), while others vow to be as faithful as they would be in person. By discussing this, you will know what to expect, and this will help to create an appropriate level of trust.

4) Send a letter or a package every now and again instead of writing an email or making a call. It can be very intimate and exciting to read a handwritten letter, and surprising little gifts can make your partner's day.

5) Try to do invent long-distance ways to do the things that you would normally do in person. For example, you can chat to each other using instant messaging while you watch episodes of your favorite show, or you can play online word games.

Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: its4fun on November 27, 2014, 06:22:17 PM
its hard.. iba parin kung nakakasalamuha mo yung mahal mo everyday. Smelling her/him breath while watching her/him sleep, movie date at home kahit walang pera, food trippings, and skin to skin contact will definitely make you feel the absence of your partner but suddenly hindi mo magawa yang mga yan kasi nga LDR. although merong mga videochats iba parin kapag lagi mo siya kasama kahit saan ka mapunta. but its all about trust, love and communication. after all magkikita parin naman kayo sometime soon.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: snuggykin on November 27, 2014, 07:05:29 PM
It takes a lot of courage to be in LDR.. Patagal ng patagal kayo mas nagiging mahirap ang pag maintain ng relationship.



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Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: imlovelyboss on December 17, 2014, 02:53:41 AM
its hard but it is going to be easy when there is true love and trust.

Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Troll Montero on December 28, 2014, 05:57:55 PM
I talked to my baby on the telephone, long distance
I never would've guessed I could miss someone so bad, yeah


Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: imlovelyboss on December 29, 2014, 03:32:41 AM
sa panahon ngaun dami ng source of communications kaya Di na gaanung mahirap basta always communicate lng tlga para pag may problem wag lumala

Title: Mahirap ba talaga ang Long Distance Relationship?
Post by: ladymeu142917 on July 14, 2015, 04:18:58 PM
Mahirap ba tlaga ang Long Distance Relationship? Talaga bang papasok dun ang hindi pagkakaintindihan kahit na matagal na kayo magkarelasyon?
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: uchiha_nejer on July 19, 2015, 04:42:17 AM
if both parties will work together, then it will work. pero kung isa mag loloko, then it will fail. basta may tiwala at pasencia, lalo na kung magkaiba ang timezone. pero kung talagang serious kayo sa isa't isa, kahit malapit o malayo, walang pinagkaiba yan hehehe ::)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladybug on October 29, 2015, 03:23:28 PM
LDR? to answer the question, ito ang pinakamahirap na sitwasyon na papasukin ng dalawang taong nagmamahalan. aminin mo man o hindi, napakahirap nito sa kahit na anong aspeto mo tingnan. many would say, as long as the love, trust, respect and communication is there..madali lang ang lahat, but I beg to disagree.

but I'm not saying na walang naging successful sa ganitong set up ng relationship. aminado ako meron pero libo libong hirap ang dinanas nila for sure.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: naruto789544 on October 29, 2015, 11:12:46 PM
agree that it is a very hard relationship... it will test your love and character for each other sometimes to the limit... trust and commitment which each other is an essential part of it...
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: xnskwo on December 01, 2015, 09:16:53 AM
Actually today technology makes it easier for everyone, however it is only temporary, it depends on case by case basis.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: paige on December 08, 2015, 10:46:28 AM
In a long distance relationship, there are many things that could happen. Temptation itself are everywhere, at anytime, and at the least person you would expect. Sa isang relation, lalo na sa isang nasa-LDR, hindi sapat ang tiwala. May sabihan nga na, hindi naman ako mahuhuli. I know I know, that's a red flag. Pero kahit anong gawin, andyan yan.

I know the constraints ng nasa LDR. Hmhhh, check ko kung andito lahat:
- Malayo, matagal, mahal ang pamasahe
- Dahil sa work
- Dahil sa family
- Dahil sa problema

Bottomline here, LDR exists and mahirap man tanggapin dadaan ang isang relation dito. What I'm trying to say is that a very important secret for a successful LDR, the art of surprise. Self explanatory na lang ang cause and effect kapag-nagawa ng isa yun and that's a true test of love.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: BOYLIBOG on January 06, 2016, 06:55:48 AM
MADALI LNG ANG LDR.. KASI MSYA RIN NMN NA MAPAKITA MONG LOYAL AND FAITHFUL KA.. BSTA NEVER EVER GIVE A REASON NA MAGHIHINALA ANG PARTNER MO, PRA DI SMAGI SA ISP NYA YUN.. SALUTE SA MGA MAY KALDR :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Derp on January 06, 2016, 07:10:45 AM
this would be helpful if magiging poll thread. haha.
@topic

i don't agree.
mahirap ang LDR.
sa panahon ngayon.
daming tukso pa-pusok ng pa pusok ang mga tao ngayon.
sobrang daming tukso sa paligid.

and kaya ko din nasabi, naka dalawang babae na ako na may BF abroad. napakadali utuin.
or talaga. mahirap pag walang ka tutut.  malamig pa naman.

nakaka guilty pero.
ayun na eh.
can't say na lalake lng natutukso din.
natural na din siguro yun sa lalake.

Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: frankiko on January 25, 2016, 12:14:34 AM
Mukhang case-to-case din kung magwo-work ang LDR.

May mga tao kasi na nasanay sa intimate and "touchy" na relationship. They feel at ease and secure kung nararamdaman nila yung presence nung mahal nila. Pero mas madali sila magbreak down pag nararamdaman nila yung distance. Sila yung madalas na hindi tumatagal sa ganitong set-up. LONG distance is HARD para sa kanila.

May mga tao naman na ok lang na malayo sa minamahal basta may constant communication.

Faith/trust and love are always at the core pero factor din ang psychological conditioning, EQ, family/friends support system, communication.. etc.

 ???
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: SilverCoin on January 27, 2016, 08:44:09 AM
mahirap sa umpisa pero kapag nasanay na ok na, basta lagi may communication at syempre buo yung tiwala mo sa partner mo para magwork yung relationship nyo.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: MaRuharuna on February 16, 2016, 06:20:09 PM
Para sakin mahirap siya. Di lang naman din kasi trust issues ang magiging factor niyan kaya mahirap. I think nandun din kung kakayanin mo ba na laging wala sa piling mo yung tao, yung frequency ng pagkikita niyo, frequency na magkasama kayong dalawa. Yun pa lang mahirap na din para sa dalwang taong nagmamahalan. Hence, may mga tao din na nakakasurvive sa ganyan. So di siya impossible pero mahirap sya.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: antonfrancis on February 28, 2016, 08:19:17 AM
Case to case basis to. Pero two words. VERY HARD. Kahit sabihin mong may trust, technology para sa communication etc. Kahit sabihin mong sobrang loyal niyo sa isat isa, sobrang trust. Mas mahirap kasi mas gugustuhin mong makasama siya. Hindi mo masasabing madali to.

Although masarap din pag magkikita kayo, sobrang saya. Pero LDR in general, sobrang hirap.
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: Blackdog on February 29, 2016, 02:35:53 PM
Depende iyan kung gaano kalayo yung iba kasi ngayon isang kanto lang makikita mo na sa facebook na long distance na daw ang relasyon nila hahahaha  :)) :))

Seryus  :P
Ang relasyon kahit na napakalayo ninyo sa isat isa ay magiging magaan o mabigat iyan kumporme sa inyong dalawa, dahil ngayon anytime makikita mo siya at makakausap hindi tulad noong uso pa ang snail mail at 48 years bago makarating ito at yung voice tape ay ngongo na bago marinig.
Kung magiging tapat kayo at open sa isat isa ay walang magiging problema, yung presence lang naman ang kulang.
Kung yun ang dahilan magbigay kayo ng isang buwan na isunuot na underwear at ipabaon sa isat isa  :)) :)) :)) :))
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: maxpedition on March 02, 2016, 06:35:25 PM
tried it and for me i think its not worth it... kudos to those people who made this work i applaud you but i think its not for me.... it true trust plays a very big role... with the advent of the internet i think its easier for people to get in touch but at the end of the day going home alone on an empty bed tends to make things complicated... as they say an idle mind is the playground of the devil...


laging tartandaan pag ang trust ay nasira buhay ang bata....
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: planetX on March 02, 2016, 10:08:39 PM
Hard as stone, difficult than walking on fire... After 4 years of my marriage due to being an OFW and every two years lang nakakauwi my marriage broke apart. My wife always accused me of having an affair but in the reality siya pala ang meron.  Nagpapakahirap ako dito sa malayo yung X-wife ko nagpapasarap lang. mahirap ang magkalayo sa isat isa kaya ako pag makahanap ng pag ibig uli hindi na ako lalayo. kaya super ipon muna :D
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: naruto789544 on March 03, 2016, 01:35:51 AM
it's one of the most difficult test in life... but surviving this kind of relationship means you and your partner is really meant for each other... :)
Title: Re: Long Distance Relationship (Hard or not)
Post by: ladyvirus01 on March 03, 2016, 02:59:05 PM
Really hard but rather say na ienjoy nio na lang bawat pag uusap thru internet etc assuming na andyan lang siya karatig bayan , treasure every single day na nag uusap kau and most of thing accept the reality how miles apart kau and trust each other  


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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: doinksdoinks on April 20, 2016, 12:38:02 AM
Mahirap kasi d kayo magkasama. Important un tiwala. Dapat lagi meron communication.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: naruto789544 on May 03, 2016, 11:31:17 PM
i am in one now... and honestly, it is testing my character as whole... but the good part of it is i am holding my own... :)
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Bummergurl on May 16, 2016, 10:29:53 AM
Mahirap i maintain...para lng talaga sa malalakas at matibay ang foundation ng relasyon hehehe
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: appleblossomgirl on May 17, 2016, 03:59:00 PM
it is some kinda ldr.. though hindi naman talaga super long distance.. un once a week lng kami magkita kasi 6 days a week nasa malayo xa... pero minsan once a month lang :(
basta everyday we communicate. texts, calls, di nawawala. he always updates me whatever he's doing and ako ganun din sa knya. though minsan dahil super selosa ako, kinukwestyon ko xa bat online xa hanggang 1am.. i think hindi healthy un ganun na pagdududahan xa (i just cant help it kasi super selosa ako)
mahirap ..super mahirap.. pero dapat may trust talaga sa isa't isa..
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: planetX on May 17, 2016, 04:53:38 PM
8 years of marriage fell apart because I had to go abroad in search of a better future for my family. Sadly it had to end awfully because of such irresponsible and reckless decision making plus infidelity. Nagpapakahirap sa malayo at yung isa pasarap lang buseeettttt  :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(  yeah Im single again but not free  :( :( :( :(
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: BlackmagiC on May 21, 2016, 11:20:56 AM
pwedi rin bang e sama ang kabit dito hehehe.kasi long distance rin kami pero di ganun ka layo wahaha
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Bummergurl on May 22, 2016, 01:15:45 AM
Online Long distance na kabit hahahaha tapos di pa nagkikita naniwala na mahal ka pero may ibang jowa din tapos deny na walang jowa nakita sa fb sila e di wow hahaha
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Mr.Curious on May 28, 2016, 10:12:10 AM
Pwede bang semi-long distance? :)
Flight stewardess kasi si GF, may mga long haul siya abroad. Minsan 5days syang wala and nasa abroad. Pero thanks sa technology, every day naman kami magkausap
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on May 29, 2016, 09:02:47 AM
pwedi rin bang e sama ang kabit dito hehehe.kasi long distance rin kami pero di ganun ka layo wahaha

pedeng pede kosa  :)) karamihan naman ata ng kabit e long distance relationship  :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: naruto789544 on June 01, 2016, 12:25:45 AM
pedeng pede kosa  :)) karamihan naman ata ng kabit e long distance relationship  :suka3: :suka3: :suka3:

hehehe... guess i have to agree with this... the farther, the better... :)
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ladyvirus01 on June 01, 2016, 12:46:19 AM
Hahaha natawa naman ako sa dalawang nasa taas ko agree sila agad hihi


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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: naruto789544 on June 02, 2016, 01:43:03 AM
Hahaha natawa naman ako sa dalawang nasa taas ko agree sila agad hihi


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of course mam @ladyvirus01... the farther the distance lessens the chance of being busted....  :))
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ladyvirus01 on June 02, 2016, 01:48:25 AM
Hmmmm yes that's true..... That's why i like LDR


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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Heathcliff on June 02, 2016, 05:33:55 PM
.... pwede din na

Kaya the farther the better pag LDR...para there's no way para mapuntahan ka.

Yung tipong. ..parang kasing layo ng Pluto. ..madalas out of reach. ..no signal...walang kuryente!

...andami ko tawa.

Ganun talaga yata pag LDR ekek. .

The number you always dial and the person you always call is always nowhere to be found.

Juicekolored nasan na ba ang blackbook ko? ! Lolz.



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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ladyvirus01 on June 02, 2016, 05:36:01 PM
Hahaha tumpak schy para kong super duper kulit eh hindi ka agad mapuntahan or hindi mo siya mabatukan ✌️


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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: bryanbonifacio on June 02, 2016, 05:41:15 PM
Never been into one. Pero importante talaga ung trust sa ganitong relasyon. Yung tipong komportable ka talaga na hindi gagawa ng kalokohan ung partner mo.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Heathcliff on June 02, 2016, 05:49:01 PM
Ehem! ....

Haha. ..andami ko tawa mga 12.

...yung tipong pag stalker pwede mo talaga taguan to the max.

Malas nya wala syang blackbook  tulad mo.  Ahaha!

:winkz :

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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: naruto789544 on June 03, 2016, 12:31:50 AM
ang stalker ata kahit saang lupalop ng mundo ka pumunta mahahanap ka... hirap kayang work niyan...  :))
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: 5y5t3m_cr45h on June 04, 2016, 06:41:35 PM
bat pumasok na ang stalker sa usapan . . . .

 ??? ??? ??? :lr: :lr: :lr: :lr:
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Heathcliff on June 04, 2016, 07:54:09 PM
ang stalker ata kahit saang lupalop ng mundo ka pumunta mahahanap ka... hirap kayang work niyan...  :))
Hehe...Sir Naruto. ..parang fbi/cia yan ah..

Oi lady. ..sino yang stalker mo...ibulong mo saken lol.

Ontopic:

Kapag LDR.. Mas madalas yung stress kesa happy moments.

...kahit happy Moments nga e nakaka stress din aferwards...malayo e...marerelieved ka lang for a while. .then ganun na naman. 

Kunsimisyon sa puso.  Lol.



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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: ladyvirus01 on June 08, 2016, 04:19:26 PM
@schy wala nga ako stalker ni wala ngang nakakapansin kay LV


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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: naruto789544 on June 09, 2016, 12:08:58 AM
Hehe...Sir Naruto. ..parang fbi/cia yan ah..

Oi lady. ..sino yang stalker mo...ibulong mo saken lol.

Ontopic:

Kapag LDR.. Mas madalas yung stress kesa happy moments.

...kahit happy Moments nga e nakaka stress din aferwards...malayo e...marerelieved ka lang for a while. .then ganun na naman. 

Kunsimisyon sa puso.  Lol.



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i agree with this mam @Schy... you feel happiness and contentment while talking with your partner... but after your conversation there is that feeling that something is empty and how you wish that your love one is with you right now...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Heathcliff on June 10, 2016, 10:28:41 AM
i agree with this mam @Schy... you feel happiness and contentment while talking with your partner... but after your conversation there is that feeling that something is empty and how you wish that your love one is with you right now...
Hmnn. ..contrary to the saying that distance makes the heart grow fonder. ..sometimes the burden of being too far from each other gives you the feeling of unbearable misery. ..and keeping up with a long distance relationship with its ups and downs coupled with on hand problems. ..will eventually affect both of you. ..but yes, some survive...and and most of them do not. ..I salute those ones who keep the fires burning , such a divine example of real love surpassing all bounds.

Thanks for that nice comment Sir Naruto. 

Sis lady,

.... girl you've got your fair share of stalkers here. ..don't you deny it.  Lol.

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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: -kobe- on September 02, 2016, 10:33:35 PM
 LDR

          para sakin ok lang ang hindi faithful basta hindi lang sinungaling
kc sa new world natin ngaun. punong puno ng tukso.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: bryden on October 28, 2016, 05:51:38 PM
isang malaking sugal ang pumasok sa ganito pero sang-ayon ako sa sinasabi ng nakakarami na TIWALA ang pinakakelangan pero ito rin ang unang sinisira...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: bhaby_luv_u on December 08, 2016, 07:46:33 PM
do chat regularly
do use email. oo email
set a date kung kailan kayo magkikita.
ung date na yun dapat matupad
dyan magiging exciting ang isang LDR relationship. Ung moment na magkikita kayo.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Cerisefleur08 on January 11, 2017, 03:07:08 AM
LDR kami ni wifey, wala kami nagiging prob basta constant skyping and messaging wag tamarin kahit busy mag multi task basta makapagusap kayo in any way or kahit wala kau topic basta nakikita nyo ang isat isa. And dont do anything stupid na makakasira sa inyo kahit sabhin mo patago ang krimen darating ang karma.

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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: tabinglinya@gmail.com on June 28, 2017, 01:41:08 AM
i know may kanya kanya tayong experience sa LDR... maybe some couples nakakayanan.. pero para sa akin, it will not work... pahihirapan nyo lng ang inyong mga sarili..., naranasan ko na kasi... hirap sobra.. kasi hindi nyo alam kung anung nanyayari sa isat isa.. madali kasing sabihin ng isa na ok lng... na maayos lng kami... na mahal na mahal ka.. but in the end malalaman mo na hindi pala totoo... na meron na plang iba..., pinapaasa ka na lng pla...

ganun din kahit may asawa na.. kala mo ok pa.. pero paguwi mo.. gulat ka may iba na pla ang mahal mo...,

kaya pagdatingsa LDR.. well.. kayo na mag desisyon.. kung talagang kaya nyo.. at mananatiling kayong tapat sa isat isa.. edi ok.. pero kung di kaya.. wag na ipilit.., pahihirapan nyo lng ang isat isat...
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: anino on August 14, 2017, 11:31:22 PM


Yung huling relationship ko LDR kaming dalawa pero bago pa yan naging girlfriend ko na siya noon pa nung HS pa kami til College pero naghiwalay din kami. 15 yrs later naging kami ulit nung nagkaroon kami ng connection thru facebook.

Dated for 3 yrs, phone, online mostly ang communications namin pero pumupunta din ako sa kanya sa bansa kung saan siya. I hate flying kaya tiniis ko yun para sa kanya but it wasn't meant to be kasi iba parin ang pinili niya, yes she sort of unofficially cheated at di ko laam meron na palang nasa sideline at yun ang pinili niya. Masakit pero what can I do?
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Cathrina on August 15, 2017, 12:06:15 AM
Aw sorry to hear that sir @anino life goes on ika nga  :-X ..

Ot:
After 2 LDR na puro failed mamahinga na muna ako,ipahinga ang nasaktan kung baga.. >:D  >:D
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: anino on August 15, 2017, 01:22:34 AM
Aw sorry to hear that sir @anino life goes on ika nga  :-X ..

Ot:
After 2 LDR na puro failed mamahinga na muna ako,ipahinga ang nasaktan kung baga.. >:D  >:D


I already moved on, we were engaged but didn't work out.

Hahaha tama ipahinfa mo muna yan para well rested when the time comes.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
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Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: dk on September 01, 2018, 11:37:25 PM
Yeah. But it is a matter of trust and loyalty. Yung kasama mo na nga natutukso na. Pano pa yung mag kalayo kayo di ba?
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: bored_husband on September 02, 2018, 05:42:05 AM
Nasubukan ko na din ang LDR pero hindi kami nakatagal kahit na may skype video kami everyday. Iba talaga iyong magkasama kayo physically.
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: Batanguenio on September 04, 2018, 03:17:04 PM
 :hi1: i started this post last 2013, kakadating ko lang dito sa KSA, at LDR kami ng GF ko. And after almost 6 yrs now, andito pa din ako sa saudi, happily married, no more LDR. The difference only is, iba ung napangasawa ko from that LDR i had, (she also got married 1 yr earlier than me). sobrang daming nag reply, i guess madami kasing in the same situation. Anyhow, my wish for all of you mga Chx at mga Tsonx. Cherish each and every moment you have with the one you love. In the end, this 3 things remain. FAITH, HOPE, LOVE. Keep sharing your thoughts and expiriences.  8)
Title: Re: LDR-Long Distance Relationship
Post by: shatter_dreamx on September 09, 2018, 04:54:04 AM
mahirap LDR, minsan napagiisipan ka pa ng masama kung ano ano daw ginagawa mo. di lang makasagot sa oras, yari na hehehe

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