common na ang mga babaeng martir...quite unusual naman kapag martir ang lalaki...
are you willing to burden yourself with the outcome of this decision? if not...why waste both your precious time losing not only your self esteem but also your mutual respect for each other? If the lady cannot be trusted to a compromise of being faithful to you as her partner...what then, is the sense of her action of going back to you...? nde ka naman siguro cork (tapon) para gawing panakip butas hindi ba?
if she cannot compromise..then be firm enough to say NO. Sometimes women must know di komo lalaki kayo e balewala ang damdamin nyo.
All is fair in LOVE and in War...better decide now to keep her or just let her go . It is obviously clear the woman doesn't know what she wants.