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had several experiences way back then. ung tipong hatid sundo ka... labas kayo... pinakilala ka na sa parents and then bff lang pala ikaw sa kanya... kinda freaked me out back then... umiwas na lang ako...
sad things happen...sometimes people would like to really know someone before they commit themselves. Kaya siguro sinasabing paasa or pinaasa...kapag nde suitable sa kanila yung isang tao...but they wanted to keep the person as a friend...kaya tumagal...maybe confused din sila paano magiging honest ...lalo mahirap kung alam nila the other person is really falling for them....and worse kung minsan the other person is blinded by too much emotion hindi sya aware dun sa apparent feeling nung isa...kapag kase nabubulagan ka ng emosyon dun ka lang sa sarili mo at sa gusto mong maramdaman nakafocus which is obviously an illusion ...kaya hindi mo nakikita yung reality ng sitwasyon nyong dalawa.unfortunately some people would love to pretend and accept the lies instead of choosing the hard truth. And that's what makes it more difficult to bear.
Sir @warfreak13 ......I almost forgot na sa Love and Relationship nga pala tayo hehe...about dun sa tanong mo...sa pagaka alam ko...I have always been transparent in all my dealings ...actually Im not too complex...very predictable nga ako e..my emotions are in the surface, what I do, what I say is what I feel. Maybe the only fault I had was yung I always act generously, too friendly and accomodating. Nagkaron ng misinterpretation siguro...but nonetheless, hindi naman deliberate yung sa part ko. hmnn...as much as possible ayaw ko ng may napapahiya.. I tend to avoid to hurt anyone's feelings...but if I have to be direct and say it...that is wala na siguro akong choice. yun naman sa ako ang pina asa...hindi pa naman nangyayari yan, nde naman ako pansinin kaya nde ako madalas mapunta sa mga sitwasyong may kinalaman sa puso...kung meron man e madalang. And thankfully...siguro dahil nasa karakter ko na rin na direct masyado , quite feisty...strict (annoyingly) ...I have nothing but respect and awe sa kanila ...I asked for respect and honesty...and that is what I got.. I believe, I deserve that afterall.
Ako both,umasa at nagpaasa..umaasa ako na he will wait for me but because of a very important reason nde ako nakauwe after 2 years na sabi ko sa kanya then sabi niya sakin na pinaasa ko lang siya at it come to the point na nde na nya ako nahintay at naghanap ng iba..para sa akin nde ko siya pinaasa kasi talaga namang babalikan ko siya at wala din naman akong iba pero sabi niya pinaasa ko lang siya..so yon pag uwe ko after 4 years na may asawa na ..di ba ang tsakit sa baga na umaasa ako na maghintay sakin huhuhu ..that was 15 years ago pero ma tsakit pa rin ..